Crazy thought of the day!

For some odd reason, whenever I walk into a set, I realize that the bigger girls of the group find me attractive almost immediately. Why is this?

I doubt it has anything to do with you in particular. If they have lower self esteem then they aren't as selective.

I think Meg hit it on the head. I know the same phenomena works for me, and I've seen it work the same for other guys as well. Her explanation pretty well covers the logical reason. You have to think, those girls aren't hit on as much as the hotter ones.

Well I cant tell by your avatar, but if you're a bigger guy, musculature or whatever, then the bigger ones will like you cause "you make them feel small". But dont fear the chubbies, they're the freaks!

Juice maybe you put off a chubby chaser vibe, but big girls need loving too.

I agree with Meg. You flirt with a girl who hardly gets hit on or talked to then she is going to be hooked on you. Maybe your flirting a little to much with the bigger girl of the group.

its not even like that, i havent said much of anything and they start touching me almost immediately

Juice wrote:

its not even like that, i havent said much of anything and they start touching me almost immediately

OK, first of all, you're a big guy yourself, so expect that. Second, that opens the door even wider for access to the hotter girls of the group, as long as you don't flirt heavily with the heavier girls.

Yeah, I need to analyze the situation better, I agree tripp.......That seems very hard though, wouldnt it?

Just be indifferent to it, not rude, but not interested. When you talk to them (cause if you just ignore them completely, then it's weird not only to them, but to other people around and they sometimes think that since you guys are touching, but without talking, that there is something there) just talk to them like you would to a guy and you'll give off the not interested vibe to everyone and then the HBs will open up to you.

Lol, Yeah.. I did that kinda the other night. This UG3 was all up on me touching my sack and all in my face, Kissing me, she made me feel like a 10, even though I should feel like that anyway. She just basically built my frame up to this point and I had a great night. I did kiss her but somewhere no one can see me LOL. Then I froze her out the rest of the night!

Fat girls convey interest like that because they are often over looked. It's a way for them to gain the attention of males. And you kissed her (a girl you wouldn't have considered otherwise), proving it works.

Juice wrote:

Yeah, I need to analyze the situation better, I agree tripp.......That seems very hard though, wouldnt it?

What seems hard? Analyzing the situation better or getting in with the hotter girls? lol

Just as Rye said, treat them as if they are your guy buddies. You will have the pre-selection from it. The girls won't realize this, the ones your LJBFing, but it will still be happening. Plus, of course, you'll have the social proof too. Which means you can open the hotter girls around you and they will automatically be more open to you, and they will be hoping you don't screw it up, lol.