This HB10 Is driving me crazy!

Hey guys,

The forums are looking great congratz! I wish you all the best!

I have a quick question.

In one of my classes (english) this new girl came yesterday. When I got there she was sitting in my seat. She's amazingly good looking i'd say the hottest girl i've seen in person. She's aquainted with a few guys in the class, but no one really talks to her all that much. She sits directly in front of me now and i see her playing with her hair out of the corner of her eye now I don't know if this is an ioi or not, I've never really had a conversation with her. We were watching the gladiator in class today and she looked back but she would never make eye contact with me and I could see her looking at the floor behind me or something. I consider myself a naturally good looking guy i'm definately the best looking in the class i'm just shy, or I don't feel as if i'm good enough for her, shes just THAT hot its amazing. We have a 20 minute break half way through the class where she goes outside and just talks to this one kid whos a real dork, I think that may be the best chance to approach but I always stumble on what to say/how to say it and i think of getting rejected why would she want to talk to me? I know if i wait to long it will just stale it out, but I don't know what to do i can honestly say i'm stuck. She's the girl of my dreams and I don't want this to slip away.

I've been studying pua for so long and I know openers and such but I always get stumbled. After I open I know exactly a few dhv's to use and such, but I really can't get myself to open/i don't know what to say. And I'm scared i don't know shes just that hot and I really want her so i don't want to mess things up!

I will give more details about the situation if they're required.

Thanks Yall

Well write her a funny note or draw a funny picture of her studying or sitting in class. Just be orginal. Like one of the class openers.

Write a note.

"Fact or Myth: You look better with your hair down/up" Whatever it is you say the opposite. Now if she changes it for you. Thats a big IOI and she just jumped through a hoop. Neg her with. "Wow I guess your parents never taught you to listen to strangers!" then lean back in your chair relaxing

Thank you for the response bro! I'd feel a little awkward to be honest doing that lmao maybe i need to man up :S

OK, yes Whoopies suggestion really is great and you should use that.

Your biggest problem is your mindset. So what if she's hot? She's a girl. She's got the same needs and desires that you do. She's human, just like you. You need THIS mindset.

Apply this mindset, and use Whoopies opener and see how much this girl can be.

I know you guys are right, in fact I know that mindset but for some reason it just doesn't sink in. Whenever I see her, I can't get myself to opener her for some reason i just stumble. And When I try to look at her i freeze up.

Thanks guys I appreciate all of your input! I just freeze up everytime i see her. She really is all that but w/e "I'm the prize, shes just a girl, and ill give her a chance to get to know me!". I guess as everyone says the opener doesn't matter as much as just doing it. But i am a little nervous. I need to get rid of my limiting beliefs "She wont like me", "she's going to reject me", "She's not into me", "She'll think im a creep". There all just made up but its holding me back i cant seem to do it!

Just to add I saw her this morning as I was getting out of my car and she was walking by she was on the phone but she gave me a little smirk/smile and we made eye contact for a couple seconds.

All great advice guys! I really appreciate it!

Today I didn't talk to her but, when the teacher left the class she asked me a question about my phone. Also I saw her playing with her hair during the class constantly (i wasn't talking to her though), also when i looked at her she would blink a lot. Just thought id add that

BipP grab your nuts...make sure there still there and open her up. You wait to long she will become uninterested.

Use my note opener. If she turns around to talk you. Tell her shhhh and use the note. Make her relive her note passing days of her younger years.

Your AA is killing you . . .

Check my newsletter I just sent out to see what you can do . . . when you BLOW THROUGH the AA.

Whoopie wrote:

BipP grab your nuts...make sure there still there and open her up. You wait to long she will become uninterested.

Ditto on that.

Alright we've only had 4 classes so I assume it's not to late yet!?

Next class i will open her for sure! I don't FUCKEN care!!!!

ALright next time you post it better be a FR or I am...going to do something very bad to you!!!

Whoopie wrote:

ALright next time you post it better be a FR or I am...going to do something very bad to you!!!

Better yet . . . a LR!

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That is you mindset right now. You percieve her as more value. This fabricated and made up! It is a concept in your head.

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This is the actuality. You are just as good as her.

I know lol! Thank you for the advice!

Thank you all. I have to adopt the mindset that I'm the prize and she's just a girl and I have to give her a chance to get to talk to me, shes lucky if i do so!

Well Tommorw I'm going to opener her and give her the chance to get to talk to me! I'll post the details of the interaction tommorw afternoon!

Last minute question:

What do you suggest I open with: 1) Say I was on a friends facebook and a saw a pic of you do you know so and so...or use a canned indirect opener (kahki opener). Also the best transition is no transition but what should I transition to how I went to montreal to watch the hockey game this weekend as a DHV story? (And say I went with a few buddys and 2 playboy bunnys).