How to react if somebody makes DLV based of your nationality

Hey, if I go to the set, most likely people will ask me "where you from?" (cause english is my second language).

1) Should I give answer right away? How should I say. Maybe something like "I tell you only if you good in geography, to make sure you know where it is:) How many oceans are in the world and tell me the names?" What do you think about this? Maybe like "I am actually alien from another planet on a short vacation here, but do not tell anybody, we do not want people to panic"

2) Let's say Eventually I say "I am Polish". Than how to answer to:
a) "Oh You know those polish jokes? We have so many here" or "I know thsi funny polish joke". I feel those are my DLV as most of those jokes actually point how stupid polish people are. So how showlud I answer? Maybe "No I do not know the polish joke, but you know the smartest guy, what was his name, ah John Paul 2, he was pole too". Do you think that would be good DHV?
b) Let's say somebody will say something like "Oh, yeah there are many polish people working at construction site near my house". This is also DLV for me I feel. Should I say something like "Really? Too bad you diud not meet the educated and sucessfull ones like my friends and me".

Please let me know your thoughts

"I tell you only if you good in geography, to make sure you know where it is:) How many oceans are in the world and tell me the names?"

that sounds so boring to me..

"I am actually alien from another planet on a short vacation here, but do not tell anybody, we do not want people to panic"

doesn't sound funny to me either

maybe it's the age gap dunno

"No I do not know the polish joke, but you know the smartest guy, what was his name, ah John Paul 2, he was pole too"
= try-hard
"Really? Too bad you diud not meet the educated and sucessfull ones like my friends and me".
= try-harder

I wouldn't care. I'm Belgian and I live in the marginal region where verybody makes fun of us because there live more pigs than human beings in our region. I couldn't care less..
I think if you come of DHV first, people will not start joking with you.
If they do, why would you care? Have a laugh, enjoy

Anything really short and witty will work if they ask you something like that.

A girl asked me my age, and I told her jokingly, "I can't tell you yet, I don't know you well enough,"
Another girl tried to disqualify me because I'm Asian, and openly stereotyped Asians to have small dicks, so I replied, "Yeah, size does matter, but yours are too small for me anyways."

It doesn't really matter what you reply as long as you show them that you're taking the lead and that what they're saying isn't getting under your skin.

Quote :

"No I do not know the polish joke, but you know the smartest guy, what was his name, ah John Paul 2, he was pole too".

Isn't a DHV. It doesn't demonstrate any of your values if you can just tell her something you made up. If you could make a list of all his achievements sounding like you have a PhD in famous Polish people, then maybe.


-vH

Thanks man!

By the way, is it just only my impression or is the fact is that the most intelligent guys are actually in PUA community??

-vH wrote:

"Yeah, size does matter, but yours are too small for me anyways."
-vH

Love that, lol. Of course for me, I'd say hers are too big, lol. Did just that last night in fact.

Both of these "v" guys have given you great pointers. Take them to heart.

Radio welcome to the forum my man. In my viewpoint you are spending to much time trying to find the perfect scenario in real time, in a preconditioned social virtual reality. There's no way you want to constantly focus on the interaction taking on a premise, where you have to be the guy focusing more on comebacks instead kino, body language, and logistics.

I understand that you are a gentleman who loves to be prepared for everything, but when dealing with this sort of static(human beings) you just have to enjoy yourself, the moment, and the atmosphere. Now, I comprehend that you may be new to the venusian arts and because you are new to the concepts and attitudes research missions such as this are needed. I only want you to know that with all this learned knowledge it helps much more when you apply it my friend. peace,lvoe and succe SS

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Embedded Disqualification:

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What to do about this, or is there anything you can do about it?

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Basically, it should lead to you being the one guy that changes her mind about whatever stereotype she is clinging to in her mind. Remember, this IS something that is just in her mind. Just as your inner game needs to be tight, hers in this case is also tight, so you have to overcome her already strong mindset to break her impression of the stereotype. That's where you need to change things, by changing her mind.

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Thanks! Sorry, but how do I ask him abt the newsletter??