The things that scare me

Last night a mate and I ditched World Bar to go to the gaff (I found out a fav girl came and was looking for me:( after)

After a bit of fun hanging around doing not much really my friend said
"Tonight, I want to talk to someone wearing boots" - They scare him apparently, no boots no fear but put a pair of boots on a girl and they jump up inhis mind. I pointed out 2 girls other than the cowgirls that had boots. He froze and didnt go for whatever reason.

After a night of not much my mate said he from now on whenever we both go out we have to push each other to do something thats out of our comfort zone. My weakness is a girl with mega toned body or flat stomach (surprise surprise) or a girl who can dress and hold herself very well, i freeze and choke on my chodeness i feel inside.

Another point we discussed was why we are trying to 'game' girls that we dont find very attractive. Its like going to university and not studying or turning up to class - why bother. You wont be satisfied and in essense you are wasting your time. You wouldnt (shouldnt) do that, instead study for the exams and test so you can finish with a degree. The same goes for women, why would you 'practice' on the ones you dont want?



Wow i sound like a snob but this is only in relation to gaming. My friends at uni are not all flat stomached, toned, girls... but they do have to dress well to roll with me ... and be at least pretty hot

LOL, not a snob, just looking at a higher standard. Good post.

Just remember, those toned girls . . . they are human just like you . . . with the same EXACT desires and lusts as you. Some guy will get in there . . . why not you?

Jacks, I think you are missing the point my friend. Here's how, so you only want to game the attractive girls, because you are such a big league sort of guy, eh. Well, what happens when the big league girls start showing you the door, or give you incongruence and compliance tests, that you can't detect. Because you didn't study the beginning subjects first. Here's the thing, I know you want all the 8,9,10's to pursue. But it is my theory that all girls have something you can learn from and take away from the interaction. It's called minor league hitting, for big league stardom. It's a process, no one in this learned environment starts knowing how to interact right away. peace,lvoe and succe SS

ah, thats another way to look into it. a new new perspective Fortune. Yet again you give me things to think on.

We all need to push ourselves beond our comfort zone to get better at anything. I use girls for practice because practice is practice. Women are basicly the same regardless of looks exept for the hotter ones generally have their bitch shields on a higher setting. Even if I don't want anything from them having more female friends is good and preselection and social proof is always a good thing.