how to get a female freind to be a freind with bennifits

ok this one has been a puzzler for me for a while no how would u get a female friend dat you cool with to be a cut buddy. ill even give a hypothetical situitoin. say you and her where cool friends sex comes up but sex as you would talk to like a homie. how do you make her into a cut buddy????

I just kino escalate with them already knowing I'm not into getting a serious relationship. I also usually tell girls that I'm a private person and I'd like it if they kept it on the low. They almost always keep it on the low after that.

Yeah some good kino is a must here.....Anytime I have had sex with a feamle friend it was always a one on one setting with alot of drinks going thru us.......

if she is a REAL friend...she will let ya hit it....

wait, is this after a break up, or is this with someone you have never been intamite with before? If it is post-relationship, i dont see how it could be that hard as long as she doesnt hate you and is sexually attracted to you. being FWB is one of the easiest things out there imo. Now if she got too attached to you, she might just need her space. (out of sight, out of mind...)

now if it is with a chick uve never done anything with, then she first has to be attracted to you. I dont see why a chick would want to be in a FWB situation unless its with someone they are physically attracted to. If you two are friends, it shouldnt be that hard to find out if she finds you attractive. Then joke around about sexual things, make her feel comfortable. Ask her if she watches porn and suggest you two watch one together (rare situation tho). just build it up. since you two are friends its ok for you to slightly cross the line (like smack her ass and laugh, or something else like that) if you are playful and humorus

ive been FWB with both types of girls

Definitely follow the advice you've gotten so far.

In a nutshell, kino escalation is a MUST, the sexual framing (dropping sexual comments and innuendo) is a must, and watching a porn together or even the suggestion of that is actually a very good idea.

The kino escalation and sexual framing will aid in building any attraction if there is any there. Beyond that, tease the girl because that will build the attraction too.