So, I was re-reading the post about IOIs.
A HB saying "nice shoes..." or "colorful tie today..."
I looked at it like she was just being friendly, "thanks" and continued my way.
Now all the guys said - she opened me - thats an IOI. Take it from there...
I decided to text all my females in my phone (roughly about 7-
. All have zero single status - and most are co-workers/class mates.
100%... ALL of them... said...
"Depends upon the girl...most likely if it was just random, out of the blue, she was just being friendly..."
I was shocked. Is this a "sub-conscience" IOI that they don't realize it?
I had one, a very sexually outgoing girl - not slutty - just embraces her "feminism"... said
"Why not just talk to her? Don't hit on her...Just talk to her. If she is interested you will know by her responses. What's the worst that can happen?"
...WoW...