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| Subject: Lovedrop Lay Report Pt. 1 Fri Mar 28, 2008 1:52 am | |
| Lay Report: Lovedrop & his wing pull two 9s (Part 1 of 2) I have avoided posting lay reports in the past few years for several reasons. First, I have seen it happen in the community where lay reports posted in public have made their way back to the women who were laid. This is obviously destructive to the relationship and also can cause the woman in question to experience emotional pain. Second, my life is increasingly in public view and I value my privacy. Third, I already went through that phase years ago where I wanted to pull girls to Project Hollywood and prove to Style and all the guys that I could get laid, blah blah blah. I am far beyond any need of male validation at this point for my sexual prowess. Part of becoming a cool guy is learning that bragging about sex makes you look like a loser.
That having been said, I’m going to write up a report for this blog, I think you guys will find value in it and I can do this in such a way that my personal life is reasonably protected. Also, the feedback I receive about this report will help me to better determine what sort of information is most valuable to our customers – so please feel free to write back with your thoughts after you read it.
Without further ado…
On a recent Saturday night there were tentative plans to throw a party at the house. By this I mean that my wing and I invited over some girls to the house and we also invited a couple of our close friends to do the same. This is the sort of “party” that I like to throw most nights of the week. Nothing formal.
You never can tell what is going to happen with these “parties” where you “invite some people over.” Sometimes a bunch of people show up. Sometimes the girls flake out. Sometimes there aren’t enough girls. More often, there are too many girls and the problem is finding enough cool guys to keep the girls happy. Cool guys – guys that girls want – are difficult to find. I have a lot to say on the subject of throwing parties and social circle farming, but that is for another post.
Around midnight or one AM, my wing and I became suspicious that the attendees were going to flake out. No big deal. There is a field (area of bars and clubs) within 5 minutes drive of the house where the gaming is pretty good, so we decided to head out in search of a 2-set. If any partygoers called us, we could always drive back to the house. In the meantime we felt reasonably confident that we could pull a 2-set.
2-sets are ideal for pulls. Just you, a competent wing, and two girls. And my wing is, without a doubt, a solid player and wing par excellence. The girls in a 2-set have the comfort and safety of each other’s company, yet they preserve the most plausible deniability. As long as both girls are escalated at the same time, their anti-slut defense will not activate the way you would expect if, say, four of their friends were watching.
Basically, 2-sets *want* to be pulled. And they want to be pulled by a 2-set of cool guys. Not 3 guys, not 4 guys, not 1 guy. The best thing you can do for your sex life if you haven’t already is find a single wing to go out with and practice picking up on 2-sets.
When I go out gaming, I will do things entirely differently based on my goal for the night. Sometimes I am out to cultivate my social circle. Or sometimes my goal is to do practice drills on certain aspects of my game. For example, perhaps I want to practice cavemanning, or stacking, or vibing, or high energy, or low energy. In such cases it can be likened to guitar practice – I am focusing on a specific aspect of my game for the long-term purpose of improving my game. I will go out and run the same stack of canned material over and over again. Or I will go out and force myself to vibe, using no canned material whatsoever. Or I will focus specifically on microcalibration and kino escalation. In those cases I am not trying to get the girl, per se, rather I am trying to improve my skillset.
The night in question was not a practice night – we were playing to win. We wanted to get out, pull some girls to our party, and be back at the house within the hour.
We drove to [halfway decent field location in the Miami area], parked, and started walking from bar to bar.
What is my gaming style like?
People have heard old recordings of me running flash game, and have commented that I sound gay in set. (I’m sure I did in the recording.) I have spent months drilling my low-energy vibing as well as months practicing flash game. I have spent years stretching my wings in all directions.
After all these years of social interaction, of practice drills, of time spent with women, of striving to improve my musical taste, my sense of vibe, fashion and social intelligence, of handling logistics, and lately bodybuilding and working hard on my business, etc, I have reached the point where I am legitimately cooler than the girls. I am a cool guy.
From looking at me, I am not obviously a community guy...and I’m not just talking about New Rock boots, which I stopped wearing almost two years ago. I can often pick community guys out of a crowd. I can tell from how they dress, from how they look around the room, from how they talk to girls. It’s just obvious.
Much in the same way, girls can spot the cool guys. If you are cool, girls know it very quickly. They can tell from how you dress, how you carry yourself, how people react to you, and from your social circle in the field. The community made me who I am today, but I do not come off like a community guy. I come off like a “cool” guy.
my wing and I have very similar gaming styles. We come off like normal, cool, high-value guys. We are not try-hards and we don’t come off try-hard. We radiate confidence and fun but with a very relaxed and comfortable vibe. Like nothing is all that big a deal and we are having fun together. We both avoid using canned material wherever possible, though we both occasionally find it to be a useful tool. (By the way, as my game has progressed, my usage of canned material has changed to where I use a lot more soundbites and far fewer full-length routines. This is also true of Matador.)
We both know immediately where we are in the set. For example, as I walk through the crowd, I can tell when girls want me to approach them. I can see it in their expressions and feel it in their movements. As they pass by, they will slow down slightly to give me more time to open – I feel their slowdown. Or as I walk past, their voices get slightly louder in order to get my attention. I can feel their interest. If I open the set, it blows wide open. They may not even be aware that they are giving me Approach Invitation – it’s hardwired.
Similarly I can tell when a set is hooked or not. I can tell whether a canned routine will hit even before I am done saying the words. I can tell if the girls need to be qualified more or need more comfort. I want to encourage everyone reading this to go out and practice until you develop this level of intuition. You can practice with canned material for months straight – then whenever you move to a more natural style of game you will still retain the intuition that was trained in.
my wing and I are both a little surprised at the numbers of fat girls in the field tonight, and we take 20 or 30 minutes to walk around a few of the new venues in the area and check them out. Pickings are slim. We almost give up and slink off but then at the last venue my wing spots a 2-set sitting at the bar.
I could tell that my wing's target was cute the blonde on the left, and from my angle it appeared that the other girl is a little fat.
“Skip this set,” I said, “mine is fat.”
My wing opened the set and both girls turned. I immediately saw my mistake. Not fat. Nothing more than a bad angle. She’s really hot, like a 9. Beautiful, model quality face. And as I later discovered, she looks great naked - perfect breasts and ass. The real deal.
In fact I want to take this opportunity to thank my wing once again for getting a better look and opening that set, because I would have walked on and opened the next one. I would have missed out on nailing the hottest girl out that night. Thanks bro!!
As they turn to look at us I can tell they view us as high-value guys. We are relaxed and go into vibing. Sort of like this:
Me: Stupid interview question such as “where are you from” Her: Whatever answer Me: Funny comment on her answer Girls: both laugh; “You guys are funny”
Repeat. Girls start playing with their hair.
It’s almost like AFC game, except coming from someone of higher value. Imagine if Angelina Jolie opened you and asked a few interview questions. Wouldn’t you still laugh at the witty things she said?
It’s important to point out that I was going purely on instinct, staying in the present moment, not in any way trying to plan my next comment. Just letting it flow naturally and comfortably with trust that it’s all OK because girls love me because I’m cool, and if these girls don’t like me, that’s ok too. No big deal. My body language and my words are an outward reflection of my tight inner game, which I’ve honed through hours/months/years of practice on my outer game. (BTW, I’m not trying in any way to say that the way I got inner game is the only way. But you knew that already...?)
My wing throws one canned routine – Mystery’s “wing, wing, wing” bit with a dollar bill. Basically you fold up a dollar bill to be shaped like a telephone receiver and put it on the back of the girl’s hand. She thinks you are doing some magic trick, she doesn’t know it’s supposed to be a telephone. You point to the eagle’s wing on the bill and tell her that “wing” is the magic word. Once you put the bill on the back of her hand, you tell her to “say the magic word three times.”
Then she’ll say “wing, wing, wing” and you pick up the bill, put it to your ear, and say “Hello? Hello?” as if you are answering the phone. The girls bust up laughing.
We start to prep the girls for the pull. In other words we are not inviting them to the party so much as we are talking about getting back home since others will be arriving soon. We are seeding the conversation.
Note: My DHV spikes to the best of my memory were done through vibing. I can’t say for sure that I didn’t use any verbal DHVs but some may have come out of auto-pilot. I don’t remember conveying value except through the vibe. I could feel that value was being conveyed and the girls were doing massive IOIs. I will have to write more about this in the future.
We went for the pull. I look at my phone and say, “JJ just texted me, it’s time to go back to the house. Hey, you guys should come to the party.”
My girl says “That’s against my rules.” I can tell that she really has rules and safety concerns that she uses and that have protected her in the past. I can also tell that she is not in one of those situations right now – that this is one of those times when her rules interfere with her life instead of protecting it. I didn’t have to tell her this, she could already tell, and I knew she would figure that out soon.
I am unreactive and say “I don’t want you to break your rules.” Why argue with her and create resistance when I already know she wants to come? She will invent the reasons on her own to justify why her rule isn’t important tonight.
We talk for a few more minutes and we get more giggles. We seriously believed we had to leave so we stand up to leave and I can feel that the girls want to come.
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