meeting quality women

I have been learning the PUA skills for close to a year now, and I feel I have hit a road block. I have listed to all the pick up artist and dating coach cd's I could get, but I don't feel like I am meeting quality women. I am able to get their phone numbers and attention no problem, but gating the date is the real problem for me. Any advice I haven't heard all ready would be greatly appreciated. Thanks Guys!

Welcome to the forum joey.

What do you consider a quality woman, first of all?

What types of venues are you using, second?

And, you get their attention and number, which is good, but no date . . . how are you going about setting up the "date"?

I have this issue at times too... Numbers and openers are easy, that's just the beginning its continuing and getting dates and escalating that is sometimes a hit and miss for me. Any advice? Tripp or anyone else who would like to share advice?

ACE

Ace, same question. How are you going about setting up this "date", or hang out?

For escalation, you MUST learn and be comfortable with both kino and verbal rapport.

You also MUST be comfortable with, and aware of, dead spots in the conversation. I visited this house party tonight, briefly. Was talking to a cute girl that was new to this crowd. We built a bit of rapport. Then, about the time OUR convo hit a dead spot, the entire room fell quiet. Not good, for anyone. So, I threw out a comment, "Wow, do you hear that hush?" And the tension was quickly broken with a few of us laughing.

Escalation is all about moving forward. Both physically and verbally. Escalation is required to make progress within any pick up.

Where are you guys messing up in your escalation?

Hey tripp,

as for my escalation and where i get stuck is passing her shit tests and her teasing/playing hard to get. Like i got his HB 7 or so FB and she keeps trying to make me jealous with my roomie and story as much as it is not working... when i do it back she flips haha said she was gunna write her name and back off bitches on my chest. and all this then teases me and plays hard to get when i got for alot of escalation. I am not so worried about inner game or conversations with women i have those aspects of my game down well. I need more work on my opening, and finishing. that and my long term game seems to lack. opening it is not always what to say that gets me because you can open with virtually anything as long as you are not ridiculous with what you say. it the timing or place that get me. like the gym! how do you open a girl on the treadmill with headphones in. while working lol. and finishing its kino escalation i need work on.

thanks
ACE

Opening a girl who's working out, with headphones on, while you're working? Geez, you want all the odds stacked against you, don't you? LOL.

Take your broom, sweep the floor, get her attention, "Mam, I need to sweep you off your feet . . . . er, I mean, under your feet." Sure to get a laugh.

You say that you're not worried about your inner game or conversations. Cool. But here's the thing . . . ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING in this game is tied to your inner game, your inner state of mind. Everything at every moment along the way is tied to that.

Girls giving you those specific shit tests, playing hard to get, are simply wanting you to push more with them, take control. Show her CONFIDENCE, that you KNOW you two are having sex. Don't rape, mind you, but just be dominate. Then, if she continues to pull away, YOU pull away. Why? Because you don't need her. There are TONS of other cute women out there. Everywhere you turn.

Well those odds are my usually odds at school i work in the gym so i run into that on a daily basis. or even if i am not working its hard...

Thats funny i like that!!!

and i am by no means saying it is perfect i am just saying compared to those specific skills it is not my priority because those seem to be my sticking points. you do raise a good point about inner game being tied to everything.

Thanks that should help!
i am talking more about verbal shit tests. in conversation.

thanks ace

Game can only progress so far if Inner Game is not dealt with.

Word! Any good reads or recommendations on inner game?

Mine when it comes out

Inner Game is so much just your own thought processes and getting your thinking straight about who you are and getting comfortable with who you are, with living in your own skin, that it's actually hard to recommend anything specific.

My top suggestions have always been to read and learn sexual techniques because the more confident you feel sexually, the more confident you'll become in general. Of course, even that only takes you so far, but it does take you a long way.

My number one recommendation is to write two lists. One of your strengths, one of your weaknesses. Don't leave anything out in either column. You strengths should always outnumber your weaknesses when you're honest with yourself. You take a good look at that list and start realizing just what kind of value you actually have.

You have to see yourself in a completely honest light. You have to face yourself. Conquer yourself.

WORD! HAHA

Okay that helps. Helps narrow down things i want to change or better myself in.
Right now that list looks pretty good too me.

Thanks
ACE

Great start!