Personality Tests

messy, irritable, depressed, fragile, worrying, emotionally sensitive, does not like to lead, phobic, weird, suspicious, low self control, paranoid, frequently second guesses self, dependent, unproductive, introverted, weak, strange, unassertive, submissive, familiar with the dark side of life, feels invisible, rash, vain, anti-authority, heart over mind, low self concept, disorganized, not good at saving money, avoidant, daydreamer, unadventurous

I have a list of traits I DO NOT want to be any more. How should I go about doing it?

First and foremost . . . by focusing on the positive. Focusing on what you WANT to be.

Second, anti-authority, lmao . . . that's me. That ain't all bad Daydreamer, that really ain't so bad either, as long as it doesn't consumer ALL your time and attention. We all need to dream a bit, man. Familiar with the dark side of life. So am I, so are most of us. That's NORMAL. Most of those traits are things that are conscious choices of yours. So, change them.

Hey it sounds like you have a classic artist's personality! Me too! It's not the most healthy personality types, true .However I'm sure you have some interesting talent or can nurture one! Think about that and make it part of your self concept!

Ok unadventorous doesn't really fit that profile but most of the others do!

Also, find people with qualities you want to emulate and hang around them. It will do wonders for you!

What's wrong with introversion?
This seems to help me out more than extroversion when I'm with a chick.

My desire to be alone and do my own thing will overide the desire to be with her and I'll go off and have my time to myself. Me not wanting to be bothered ALL the time and wanting time to myself shows independence.

Means I don't need her to be happy.