Another rule of pick up

So I found this one out during a concert last night.
Pick up requires heavy dedication from my time and focus.
I must be willing to use the $12 I spent for admission on gaming targets instead of dancing to amazing music.
I must be willing to ignore my usual group of friends atleast until I can isolate my target. Which is around a solid 7-20 minutes.
I must be willing to invest on my target of choice.

It sucks. Choosing between a target you've invested in for the past two months and watching the band you've been dying to see for the last two years.
But know you must make a choice.

So which did you choose?

I think it can become a very difficult call when it's an event or band that you really really want to experience to the fullest and not just in the background, especially when it's more than $12. I went to a concert last year and there was a girl that I was a bit interested in and was talking with before the music started, but when the band came on, I didn't care enough to do more than occassionally glance at her and think about gaming her, but I kept deciding I prefered the band that I may not see again.

Yeah exactly. I gamed the girl for 10-15 minutes on and off when the bands were setting up, and then I barely even wanted to game the girl.
I'm really into the music scene so it all makes sense. (:

Oh come ON guys! lol. Don't wimp out!

How is it that I can really enjoy the music playing, whether from the DJ or from the band, game a set of girls (not just one) play them off of each other, AND merge them with other sets and groups of friends all at the same time?

Grape wrote:

Yeah exactly. I gamed the girl for 10-15 minutes on and off when the bands were setting up, and then I barely even wanted to game the girl.
I'm really into the music scene so it all makes sense. (:

OK, if you like the girl, you should have made her a part of your reality, you two could have had a good night together if you reeled her in with you to enjoy this band. Don't be afraid to ask, but watch how you ask.

Rye Lee wrote:

So which did you choose?

I think it can become a very difficult call when it's an event or band that you really really want to experience to the fullest and not just in the background, especially when it's more than $12. I went to a concert last year and there was a girl that I was a bit interested in and was talking with before the music started, but when the band came on, I didn't care enough to do more than occassionally glance at her and think about gaming her, but I kept deciding I prefered the band that I may not see again.

And you, THINK about gaming her while the band was playing...Like I told Grape...you should have brought her over there with you. What was you handle on things? If you didn't care enough to game her after the band then why were the thoughts lingering still in your head after the fact?

Did you care enough? Perhaps you did, but were the logistics right? I mean there has to be a more vali reason because I don't see that as one....

Paramour wrote:

Grape wrote:

Yeah exactly. I gamed the girl for 10-15 minutes on and off when the bands were setting up, and then I barely even wanted to game the girl.
I'm really into the music scene so it all makes sense. (:

OK, if you like the girl, you should have made her a part of your reality, you two could have had a good night together if you reeled her in with you to enjoy this band. Don't be afraid to ask, but watch how you ask.

Well I'm lost in the dance pit with 30 other people inside it. =PP
And when I mean dance, I mean::


Yup, go ahead and have a laugh at it. I believe I have my own reasons,,

Dude, I used to dance in pits back in early high school days......it kicks ass.....but anything is possible dude...think outside the box...i do. Its a means in which whether there is a will, there is a way!

Paramour wrote:

Dude, I used to dance in pits back in early high school days......it kicks ass.....but anything is possible dude...think outside the box...i do. Its a means in which whether there is a will, there is a way!

Oh, I LOVE packed dance floors! That's when things get the hottest . . . and you can get away with the most shit!

L.A. Tripp wrote:

Paramour wrote:

Dude, I used to dance in pits back in early high school days......it kicks ass.....but anything is possible dude...think outside the box...i do. Its a means in which whether there is a will, there is a way!

Oh, I LOVE packed dance floors! That's when things get the hottest . . . and you can get away with the most shit!

Yes, I do too...forthe most part!! Well, you've seen personally what I do on dancefloors....esp. at Grahams on the hip/hop section. I might as well been having sex on the dancefloor right there in front of everyone, but I didn't want to make you jealous either..LMAO!!

Honestly, I'm an audiophile and music takes priority over my dick if the music is good enough. I'd much rather focus as much attention as possible on recording the event in my mind and sarging a girl, or even fooling around with her on the dance floor is gonna distract me from that. I love women, but I love music more, sorry to dissappoint.

As far as "regretting" not interacting with her and thinking about her occassionally during the concert, I really don't think that's a big deal, hence why I mentioned it in such a way. If during an hour and a half or two hour concert, I think of and/or look at a girl that I was interested in sarging a few times, because she's in my line of sight, then I accept that, because if she weren't right next to me, then I might only think of her briefly once and then shrug it off in favor of the music. Emily Haines w/ Metric live vs. random girl = Emily Haines winning every time.

Rye Lee wrote:

Honestly, I'm an audiophile and music takes priority over my dick if the music is good enough. I'd much rather focus as much attention as possible on recording the event in my mind and sarging a girl, or even fooling around with her on the dance floor is gonna distract me from that. I love women, but I love music more, sorry to dissappoint.

Woot. (: