How do you judge how good a guy is going to be in bed?

In the comunity we all know women will make judgements on how good a guy is gonna be in bed very very quickly. I've heard many theories on the matter but some elaboration would be good.

I have a few theorys of my own but it would be nice to have some womens perspectives. Is it usually something you consiously notice? What makes you come to those conclusions? Are they usually right?

Personally.... I like a man who KNOWs what he is doing and takes control in the bedroom... If he is making the moves/putting the moves on me and is confident in what he is doing... THEN I CAN TELL he's confident and knows what he's doing...

That doesn't mean I DON'T know what I'm doing lol... I have been the younger one (10yrs younger) in a relationship and been the one who was more sexually experienced and was the one in control... I liked that, but at the same time, it's more of a turn on if your man is confident in "the bedroom"...

If you're not that comfortable/confident... do some research online, watch some porn, and watch the White Tiger Tantra Videos in the flash videos in the Vault... and practice, practice, practice... but whatever you do, be CONFIDENT in your ability to SATISFY the female, TAKE CONTROL in the bedroom.. position her how you want her, turn her over, whatever, and ROCK HER WORLD...

CONFIDENCE is KEY... that's starts with you and also starts from the moment the female meets you... If you are nervous, shy, or scared, then it will most likely turn the woman off... women like MEN.. not scared lil boys..

Now, if you carry yourself well, hold your head up, and exuberate CONFIDENCE (don't be cocky, there's a big difference), then she will assume or expect you to be the same way in the bedroom... and u better be!! Or else, she will be dissapointed lol

i agree with you two....confidence.... when he takes control in the bed..i can tell that he's good and knows what he is doing

have you seen the "thomas crown affair" with pierce brosnan and rene russo? if you haven't you SHOULD watch it. I compare men to how his character is. Sexy successful, doesn't need a women but they flock to him anyway, the way he moves and the way he speaks to her, to me it's a pure genius PUA movie without being a PUA movie. Also the sex scene, um yeah it's what women want in life. It's sexy and dirty and sensual. all things that make a woman go 'O'!

I've seen that. It was good. Very good. I don't remember the sex scene though lol.