Good Bye

Subject: Good Bye Sun Mar 30, 2008 1:29 am

Hi!

22 years of age, UK

Complete AFC. With little experience with women. I want to change this! It's difficult, I seem to be picking up the jargon pretty easily and even reading posts and knowing where a person went wrong... when prior to reading 'The Game' a month ago, I'd have no idea. Yet in the field, WHERE IT MATTERS, I'm dumbstruck, nervous and painfully speechless! I guess it's the case of not becoming a keyboard jockey and going out there and forcing myself through some difficult times. Sometimes it's feels like a futile mission, can I really un-learn bad habits and nervousness that I've built up in the last 22 years?! Can I become an Alpha?! I guess it's time to try!

cheers
-stereo

*referred by vedere [under a different username]

Subject: Re: Good Bye Sun Mar 30, 2008 1:34 am

Welcome to the forum dude. You can change. Anyone can. You just have to have the drive to do it. The guys here know what they are talking about. We can help you with all that stuff. Just start asking questions and we'll help you from there.

Subject: Re: Good Bye Sun Mar 30, 2008 6:38 am

Welcome to the forum stereo. Although, I'm not sure if I should say welcome with a topic of "Good Bye", lol. I'm hoping you're saying good bye to Mr. AFC. Yes, you can do this. You can grow and get to where you want to be. As nuked said, you just need the drive to accomplish that. And, I believe you have it in you. It WILL be a struggle in the field, AT FIRST. Realize this. Know this. And plow through it. It WILL get better. As you calibrate in the field, it gets much better. Click the link in my sig which takes you to my website. You can read over some of my experiences there to see that it does get better.

Subject: Re: Good Bye Sun Mar 30, 2008 7:02 am

Welcome.

2 things to keep in mind...

-You have to want, no NEED, to change. Noone is gonna do it for you.

-Anything worth having is hard to get...we can help you get there but the focal point of your personal change will only be limited by yourself.

Again welcome, we beleive you can do it.

Subject: Re: Good Bye Sun Mar 30, 2008 8:23 am

'good bye' was purely to get attention, cyberpeacocking as it were ha!

Thanks for the realistic advice, motivation etc. Time to get started!

The Forum skin/layout is very nice by the way, all sparkly and fresh. Good stuff Smile

Subject: Re: Good Bye Sun Mar 30, 2008 12:36 pm

Welcome to the forum man!

Subject: Re: Good Bye Sun Mar 30, 2008 7:10 pm

Welcome to the forum bro.

Subject: Re: Good Bye Sun Mar 30, 2008 9:47 pm

stereo wrote:: The Forum skin/layout is very nice by the way, all sparkly and fresh. Good stuff

Thank you very much. What part of the UK are you from?

Subject: Re: Good Bye Mon Mar 31, 2008 12:14 am

About an hour outside of London. Deep in the wilderness.

Subject: Re: Good Bye Mon Mar 31, 2008 2:05 am

There's a wilderness over there . . . ? Shocked

Subject: Re: Good Bye Mon Mar 31, 2008 3:06 am

Welcome to the board. You'll find what you are looking for if you stick around long enough Smile

Subject: Re: Good Bye Mon Mar 31, 2008 5:42 am

L.A. Tripp wrote:: There's a wilderness over there . . . ?

I saw a couple of sheep the other day. Pretty intense

Subject: Re: Good Bye Mon Mar 31, 2008 6:36 am

stereo wrote:

L.A. Tripp wrote:: There's a wilderness over there . . . ?

I saw a couple of sheep the other day. Pretty intense

That's just . . . earth shattering man . . . Cool

Makes me want to stay away from the UK though, lol. I like city, fast paced life. Unless there's some hot farm girl that's got a bit of uninhibition in her . . . she takes me out to her field, bends over to show me how her tractor works . . .

Subject: Re: Good Bye Mon Mar 31, 2008 6:41 am

Lol the city Tripp......you live in E-ville. That is just a big town =P

Subject: Re: Good Bye Mon Mar 31, 2008 6:48 am

Quit bragging about your city . . . boy . . . lol Wink

Subject: Re: Good Bye Mon Mar 31, 2008 6:54 am

Hey, old man. I'm not bragging. Its not my fault E-ville exists only for the colleges down there =P

Lol my "town" sucks. Its like only 2 square miles. On top of that Indy is for the most part a dump. But hey to each is his own.

Subject: Re: Good Bye Mon Mar 31, 2008 7:54 am

Old man, eh? LMAO. I can't help it that because I'm twice your age I have more experience . . . and younger chicks are usually into older guys, so . . . sorry for your luck . . . minor Wink

Yeah, well, the part about E-ville existing for the three colleges that are here is actually an advantage. Hot college girls. Now, for Indy being a dump . . . again, sorry for your luck lol.

However, on a serious note . . . I have found out from a fellow PUA here in town that Bloomington has a pretty big lair, if that's anywhere close to you.

Subject: Re: Good Bye Mon Mar 31, 2008 8:15 am

Sigh.......Tripp. So, the ineffable banter begins. You may have live longer, but I tend to have an edge that others don't. My frame and life experience defies my age and thus makes me all the more alluring Cool

As to E-ville having good women. The only school down there that I know of that has good women is USI, and that place is off in BFE.

Bloomington is eh.....I believe a little over an hour away. Also, on the note of the lair. I would still be pretty limited to sarging. Even if they went to a lot of IU parties, most frats card to see if you are a student.

Subject: Re: Good Bye Mon Mar 31, 2008 10:33 am

Welcome to the forums just read learn then go get the girl you want... Just remember you are the prize not the girl.... Good luck

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