If your fundamentals are good . . .

If your fundamentals are good, then you will be a
relatively dominant, powerful, confident, charismatic, and
emotionally steadfast man. Hence, girls (and most people in
general) will naturally feel like following your lead. So
when you tell a girl to sit down, she will feel a strong
social and emotional pull to sit down. When you're
emotionally pulling a girl in by telling her to kiss you,
she will have to work extra hard to resist. Most girls like
a strong, dominant, powerful, confident, charismatic guy,
and many girls have the fantasy of "being taken" by such a
man. Any resistance they give to such a man is just token.

So in essence, Resistance is futile,hahahaha. I have always wanted to say that in print or verbatim. To offer my take on the topic, you are dead-on. Inner inertia of self contained confidence becomes a fireball of charisma and leadership in the environment with others. Think Alpha gorilla Male on this one, and if you are unfamiliar youtube it. Peace,lvoe and succe Ss

Women love to be lead. There is no question about that.

Last night I "asked" an HB out... It went something like this:

"I have plans for us next Saturday. You're coming to Reno and we'll do the wine-walk (described the walk with some passion), then we're going to dinner at the best sushi place in the city, then...."

Women like it when a man has everything planned out. If, instead, you were like "um.. we're going to dinner... (and don't have plans afterwards), she'll question your motives.

Women like a man to take charge, to tell them what to do. It's not as though I'm not open to suggestions, it's just that this is my world, and she's just a guest in it... We do things my way.

Cock Diesel wrote:

Women like it when a man has everything planned out. If, instead, you were like "um.. we're going to dinner... (and don't have plans afterwards), she'll question your motives.

good point, thats definetly something i will have to keep in mind