Why Most Men SUCK With Women . . . The Big Four

All right... you guys know that I don't email too many articles from
other people... but I couldn't resist this one...

If you can't wrap your paws around what 'ole McKay is saying here,
there's no hope for you... lol.

Seriously though, if you've ever wanted a "one size" fits all model
to work with. Here you go.

It's simple, thorough, and if you grasp this, you'll blow the shorts
of 99% of the men out there.

No joke.

Here's Scotty! ===>

Hey B... thanks a lot

You know guys, I refer to what I call the "Big Four" quite a bit.
Yet, it has occurred to me that I've never devoted an article to
making sure you've got the exact concept I'm talking about down
with pinpoint accuracy.

"It's about freakin' time", someone said. And I have no arguments
for you there.

Better late than never though. So let's fix the situation.

The "Big Four", in principle, are the most basic, fundamental
factors that decide whether a woman is attracted to you or not.

Get them right, and women WILL respond powerfully to you. Ignore
them (or worse...be ignorant OF them) and you could spend the rest of
your life wondering what the problem is.

So obviously, this is one of the more important articles I've
ever written

Before I break down the "Big Four" for you, I want to offer a
sincere caveat: There is NO WAY this article is going to cover every
single nuance of what these concepts entail.

That's fine for now, because my goal in writing to you today is not
to cover minute details but rather to give you a "big picture" view
that provides a valid framework to work with as you discover more
and more how to deserve what you want.

After all, quite literally everything I talk about or write about
hinges on the "Big Four".

So with out any further intro, here they are:

1) Masculinity

Last time we talked about how to "man up" in exactly the way women
want us to. That's the first component of the "Big Four".

Men and women are designed to attract each other. This is so
fundamentally simple a concept, yet one that is so easily clouded
in today's world.

Men are softening their demeanors, taking the edge off the strength
that inherently makes them men. Instead, they are giving in to
temptation to become more feminine in the name of "sensitivity".

You, as a man who desires feminine, attractive women must absolutely,
positively resist feminization of your personality and of your
lifestyle.

If you read that as "being insensitive" or in any other misogynistic
way, you've been hornswaggled, hoodwinked, bamboozled, flimflammed
and any other synonym for "deceived" that you've ever heard in an
old cartoon before.

Seriously.

Being masculine is NOT synonymous with acting like some
under-evolved "caveman" who rapes, pillages and is otherwise
responsible for every form of pain on Earth.

Be the guy who leads, plans, protects and decides like a man. Put
aside "softness" and "weakness" while retaining heartfelt
benevolence towards all.

And watch as women become drawn to you like a magnet to steel.

(AE's take: I LIKE the steel simile)

2) Confidence

If you know what you want, and fail to take action because of fear
or indecision, then you are-by definition-lacking confidence.

A woman wants a man who leads, and contrary to what you may have
heard elsewhere she wants a man who takes charge of his own destiny
and SELECTS her.

That's right, YOU SHOULD BE THE CHOOSER. Offloading that
responsibility onto women, or dismissing it entirely as mythical is
a COP OUT.

As a man who is comfortable in the fact that he deserves what he
wants, your inner-game must be together enough for you to ACT UPON
that.

In concept, confidence is nothing more complicated than a firmly
held belief in your ability to succeed at a high level while
dismissing the possibility of failure (preferably entirely).

So at the baseline, confidence is absolutely necessary in order for
you to even meet the women you want, let alone demonstrate your
ability to provide a balanced environment for the relationship to
grow in.

This segues nicely into the next factor...

3) Inspiring Confidence

Once you've achieved a level of confidence that enables a woman to
believe in you the way you believe in yourself (which carries an
important cause/effect relationship) then you are ready to affect
something in your relationships with MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite
Sex) that is intensely powerful.

It's like this: Women want SAFETY.

Unfortunately, the man women most need to be protected from is the
ONE THEY'RE WITH.

If you drive like a maniac when she's riding shotgun, openly flirt
with other women in her presence, waffle over decisions, have
absolutely zero ambition and have no clue what to do with her when
you pick her up (let alone when it's TIME TO KISS HER), guess what?
She'll have no sense of stability around you.

Not knowing what to expect next is fun for women when it comes to
special surprises, unannounced plans and other such lightweight
moments that contribute to "being unpredictable".

And granted, if you are boring and unexciting that's NO FUN for
women. In fact, it could be argued effectively that "Being Fun and
Interesting" could have made this list a "Big Five".

But what we're covering here is something deeper. YOU are like a
bastion of strength, no matter what happens or when it happens.

This builds the all-important measure of trust in her heart and mind.

When you have successfully caused a woman to believe in you the way
you believe in yourself-no matter what the situation-then you have
succeeded at INSPIRING CONFIDENCE. She can rest in your presence.
Without that, she'll resent you-if not become flatly repulsed.

4) Character

This is one of the most misunderstood terms in the English language.

Don't kid yourself. "Character" is not to be confused with "being a
character".

Simply putting away routines and openers does NOT equal
"character-based" seduction like some "natural game" proponents
would have you believe.

"Character" is rock-solid stability at your very core. It's doing
what's right simply because it's the right thing to do, not because
of "what's in it for you".

A man of character promises only what he is capable of delivering,
and often delivers more than he promises out of sheer
overachievement.

He does what he says he is going to do, and avoids deception.

He is all about building others up rather than tearing them down in
a weak attempt to make himself appear "better". The man of character
realizes that's neither ethical nor effective, even.

Mostly, the man of character has his identity figured out and his
conscience is okay with that. And when that's all set, you'll NEVER,
EVER have to ask "What do I do next?" "Character" is "seductive" by
definition.

Do you get the sense that each separate component of the "Big Four"
is in fact the component of a larger, cohesive concept? If so, then
YES...you are 100% correct. It's very much as if they each contribute
to and are in fact are amplified by one another.

And that "larger concept" is, in case you haven't figured it out,
HOW TO BE A GREAT MAN.

And GREAT MEN attract and deserve GREAT WOMEN.

What it all comes down to is this: A GREAT WOMAN wants a man who has
his part covered so that she can be FREED UP to be the feminine
woman she was born to be. You make her feel like a woman, and you
are that man.

Miss out on that, and it's back to sitting around figuring out how
two neuter creatures are supposed to attract each other...which of
course is a pointless exercise. Unless, of course, you're okay with
a neuter woman. Or one who "wears the pants".

But I'm telling you, show me a woman who "wears the pants" and I'll
show you a BITTER woman, not a BETTER woman.

So why make her do both jobs? Why make her fulfill upon the
masculine and the feminine?

Or are you really okay with having the feminine part covered
yourself?

If so, good luck with that.

But my vision for you is much, much more noble than that. All you
have to do is visualize it for yourself.

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Whoa... did you get all of that. Now, I command you to reread this
and get it stuck in your head .

This is powerful stuff.

If you like McKay, and want to see more, make sure to check out
his powerful book, Deserve What You Want...

Click Here ===> http://www.angeleyesdevilsmile.com/deserve

It's seriously bad ass.

Just remember that you heard it from me, FIRST.

Your friend,

AE


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