Wierd Cycle...

I tend to get myself in these weird cycles with girls, and currently im messaging a girl on facebook... now, Im in this cycle where the week i meet a girl she is warm to me, then the next week she is cold to me, but only gets warm when her friends are around me. Then when I go to greet her to just be friendly the body language is very cold. Just this past monday, I saw her out at a venue and i was leaving and I was going to say goodbye to her, and she acted as if I wasnt there. And the bulk of the message I will send her on facebook will tell this but is there a better way to go about this, do I have other options?

What is YOUR body language with these girls Juice?

Usually, its me showing me more value towards them ... ive noticed that I lean in a lot in set and the reason why my voice doesnt carry thru the speakers is the fact my head is tilted down instead of up

First of all, you're a big guy, including being tall, so head being tilted down SOME is to be expected, unless the girl is also tall.

Second, leaning in is ok . . . SOME as well. If you lean in slightly, say your stuff, then get back out, it's ok. If you pull the girl closer to u to speak into her ear, that also helps. If you are staying leaned in after you speak your piece, that's not good.

One thing I'll do at times is noticeably turn my ear to her mouth to hear what she's saying. This is usually done before we are in any type of "intimate" embrace. If we are hugging each other or something like that then we can easily speak into each other's ears.

I'm just not secure with leaning in just yet, or i'm just being really anal about the basics of pickup. I was just thinking as I was just typing this that dancefloor game is apart of who I am, Im a good PUA just not consistent! And what you just mentioned tripp I did that last night with talking to a nice hot blonde.

Not secure and being anal would both fit you at the moment, lol.

Have you looked at the two short video clips I put up yet? They don't show you much, but it gives an insight.