Need your thoughts ladies

Alright ladies, throw some words my way.

Here's the scenario. You're having a really good time with a guy the night you meet him. To the point you're blowing off all the other guys and hanging onto him.

However, you are drunk. In fact, you throw up at the end of the night. You don't throw up directly in front of the guy, but he finds out that you got sick, so you're embarrased. You did give him your number before you got sick.

What is a short and to the point way this guy can contact you to let you know as clearly as possible that he is not judging you on that "performance" but wants to get to know the "other side" of you, because he already thinks you're fun and cool to hang out with.

Why say anything at all Tripp? If she brings it up first then you can say something but otherwise why not just leave it alone?

let her know you had a great time. dont mention the rest.

Thanks ladies for this perspective. Sometimes we all need a reframe.

Welcome oldlady.

If it is that important to the guy to let the girl know that he sees past the "performance", then I would tease her and make her laugh and basically ask her out so you can get to know the "other side" of her.

Myself as a woman from my point of view to another woman who would have this problem. I would simply tell the man in question that I was sorry and had to much to drink that night but really do hope that he would call. Then excuse myself and go home. Hopefully the next day if he really did like me and was not put off by a bit to much frivolity then perhaps there is a chance to get to know each other better.
Thanks

Well, I think this thread is a bit stale, but you never know who can benefit from all different scenarios in life's little curves. Welcome to the forum!!

Thanks Paramour for the welcome. I see what you mean about this topic is going stale just one I happend to stumble accross and have seen this happen to a few friends of mine before. Not just woman mind you but men as well. So whom ever is on the other end I think we have all had our nights like this. Thanks again

Well Mizcook, welcome to the forum.

Yeah, the thread was a bit old, but it doesn't bother me a bit that you added your valuable input to it. I appreciate that. Never know who else it might help.

Thanks for the welcome Tripp. Love the site and there is alot that men and woman could learn from each other if we all try to give our input into things. Even if they are older. Thanks and look forward to learning more on the site and finding other posts.

Tell her how much you enjoyed her company. Don't talk about what happened that night.