The other night in a gay bar

I went to this gay bar Sat night with my girl. We went because the music is good and we have some friends who go there. For someone who radiates heterosexuality (IMO and was with a girl, I was getting a lot of looks (by dudes, guys). Apparently I was advertising-- I wore leather bands on my wrists. I found out this means "I like bottom." Hmmm... I wonder if there is an accessory I can wear that says "Buy me a drink and I'll think about it"

Aside, I think a gay bar is worth exploring as far as PU goes. The chicks there ("fag hags") go there with their gay friends because the music is good and they don't have to worry about getting hit on. I think this lowers her shields. This plays well with my gay opener "if I weren't gay I'd make you two my girlfriends-- one for Sunday, the other for Wednesday...I'm too much for one woman to handle.. blah blah blah"

I've already said the gay opener is money.. And being in a gay bar helps with this.... it also tells the woman (a few minutes later, when she realizes you're straight) that you're secure enough to hang out there, that you didn't go out to be "on the prowl" and that she must be special because you didn't go out looking to pick up chicks, you just happened to bump into her.

Gay bars also give you the girl's perspective. What it's like to be constantly hit on and putting up the bitch shield.

Cool post, a bit off subject but i didnt have any idea leather wrist bands where gay...i have actually been looking for some around here and online and have yet to find a style i like...where did you get urs and could you post a pic?

Ka wrote:

Cool post, a bit off subject but i didnt have any idea leather wrist bands where gay...i have actually been looking for some around here and online and have yet to find a style i like...where did you get urs and could you post a pic?

I had no idea either, lol.. But I like the look, and I'm not going to stop wearing leather bands just because it means something in the gay community..

On one wrist I wear a watch with a wide band. On the other is just a band (actually, it was a broken leather watch band. I trimmed the leather straps off it and wear it as-is.



I also wear the bands with an outfit like this-- shirt untucked, unbuttoned with a loosely tied tie, torn jeans, white dress shoes