Secrets of Speed Seduction

Secrets of Speed Seduction, Home Study
Course Book and Workbook:
How To Create An Instantaneous Sexual
Attraction in Any Woman You Meet!!!

DISCLAIMER
Neither the author, nor the publisher of this book take any
responsibility for the use or misuse of the information it
presents. The reader is warned that this material presents
extremely powerful technology, to be used at the readers own
risk. This book is presented for information and entertainment
purposes only.
Be warned, therefore, that this book neither asserts the
legality of any of the methods it describes, and the author
unequivocally disclaims any responsibility for damages resulting
from the use of any of the techniques or the consequences of
implementing any contained herein.
"Give me five minutes to talk away my face, and I'll bed the
Queen of France." ... Voltaire
"I come to you with only words,
Looks and money I have none,
But should desire require it,
My words will bear me out!" ... Speed Seducer's Creed
INTRODUCTION
WHY SPEED SEDUCTION?
One of the toughest realities we have to face as men is, that
for the most of us, getting laid is a form of gambling, and the
game is strongly rigged against us.
Think back to the last time you had a date. C'mon ... it wasn't
that long ago, was it?
Didn't you find yourself, either before or during the evening,
wondering things like, "When should I make my move? Am I going
to get some tonight? Will I get lucky?".
And that's the bottom line ... for too many of us, dealing with
women is a matter of luck, meaning it is something which is out
of our control.
But hold on a second. What if you could design your own "game of
chance" where YOU get to set the rules? What if you could play a
poker game where you get to pick the cards you're dealt, you get
to see her hand before you bet, and you get to borrow money from
her to bet against her?
You'd play that game 24 hours per day, that's what.
And that is what Speed Seduction does: it puts you back in
control by teaching you how to create, on a repeatable,
predictable basis, the kind of results you want with the kind of
women you want, where and when you want it.
Does this sound like an outrageous claim? I certainly hope so;
it goes against the beliefs of our entire culture; a culture
that teaches you that "attraction" can't be created, that it
just has to be a matter of "chemistry", that is either there or
it isn't.
By the time you're done with this book, or the home study course
of which it is a part, you'll be thoroughly convinced that our
entire culture is totally full of $*!@. Even more important
you'll be able to use this knowledge to give you an incredible
edge over 99% of the population, not only when it comes to
getting laid, but in every area of your life.
SPECIAL NOTE:
This book is designed as a WORKBOOK, to be used as part of my
entire Speed Seduction Home Study Course. This means two things:
1. It's not designed to be passively read. You have to
actively participate.
2. If you didn't acquire it as part of the entire course,
which includes about 12 hours of audio tapes, among other
things, you should seriously consider doing it.
One thing more. This book is divided in two sections: theory and
practical application. If you want to jump ahead to the
practical application section, go ahead, feel free. Just make
sure that later you go back and get the theory stuff down; you
should understand what you're doing if you really want to get
excellent at this stuff.
Ross Jeffries
Los Angeles, California
June, 1994
Chapter 1: THERE'S NO SUCH THING, THERE'S NO SUCH THING, THERE'S
NO SUCH THING!!!!!
Ok. Here is the first key secret to understanding, not only
Speed Seduction, but any form of influence or persuasion, in any
area of life:
There's no such "thing" as love. There's no such "thing" as
passion. There's no such "thing" as attraction, or chemistry, or
lust.
I know, I know, you're saying. That's the problem ... for most
of you, most of the time, there's no such thing. There's just
boredom, frustration, and playing with Mr. Winky.
But that's not what I'm talking about, so pay close attention.
I'm not saying that people don't experience states of
"attraction" or "chemistry" or "lust". What I am saying is that
these states are processes that take place inside the human mind
and body. Which means that they are states that ...
CAN BE SUMMONED FORTH AND DIRECTED AT WILL!!!
Here's An Example: "Falling in Love" Exposed!!!!
Ok. Since I'm being pretty general and theoretical here let's
get a bit more specific and talk about what every woman dreams
about: falling in love.
Now, based on what I've said so far, do you think I believe
"love" is based on some mysterious "chemistry" that flows
between two people? Maybe it's caused by a butt-naked little
angel named Cupid who shoots an arrow into your ass?
No, Here's how people fall in love: First, understand you do NOT
fall in love with someone when you are in their presence. No.
You fall in love when you're off by yourself, thinking about
them afterwards. This is why it is so hypnotically powerful,
because you are doing it to yourself, and people are always
their best hypnotists.
Here's how it happens: you go out with someone, maybe even one
date. And then you go home, and you're lying there, thinking
about them. And, you form an image of them in your mind. And as
you do that, you start to list to yourself all the qualities
about them that you like, "She's so , she's so , she's really ."
Maybe then you picture you and them having lots of fun in all
sorts of situations. Then you get that warm, funny feeling right
in your solar plexus, and then, the nail in your coffin, you say
her name to yourself 2 or 3 times. If you're really a geek,
maybe you even dance around the house singing it!! Or you
possibly go about bring up her name in every conversation.
Sound familiar? Now, as you recall the times in your past when
you did this, were you then able to stay cool, in control of
yourself AND the relationship? Or were you calling her every
day, always wanting to see her, and eager to kiss her ass, to
the point where she, of course, dropped you?
Here's the point: "love" is a process people do to themselves!
It's not a "thing" you trip over or a "hole" you fall into. And
I know, even though I'm not there watching you, that as I
describe it here on paper, you recalled and went through that
process yourself, and recalled the feelings associated with it.
And if I can do it to you, on paper, when I'm not even there,
then you can, if you know how, skillfully describe this (or any
other) process to a woman in your presence, link it to yourself,
and in a matter of minutes, cause her ...
UNDERGO THAT PROCESS AND FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU
ON THE SPOT, DUMMY!!!!
Think about this for a second. The dumb process you did to
yourself can now be used to make her fawn all over you,
repeatably and predictably!
Of course, the same thing applies to any other process you want
her to run, or state you want her to experience, whether it's
forgetting your competitor, (We'll show you how to do this later
with my infamous "Boyfriend Destroyer Pattern") or anything else
you care to name. If she's done it or experienced it once
before, you can get her to do it or experience it with you
again!!
How The Speed Seducer Thinks Things Differently
In light of that understanding, consider this for just a second.
Let's say there's some juicy, super-hot, incredible babe you've
lusted after for a long time. And, to further sweeten the
scenario, let's say through prayer, good karma, and the
intercession of the Pope, you've managed to get a date with her.
Should you be asking yourself questions like, "Where should I
take her? How should I dress?".
If you only ask yourself these totally unimportant questions,
then you are a chump. No. From now on, you'll ask yourself the
question I always get the men in my seminars to ask:
If I could create any states of mind I want in this woman, this
evening, what states would I want her to experience with me? Ok?

How about states of:
*LUST*
*WANTON DESIRE*
*UTTER FASCINATION*
*FEROCIOUS HORNINESS*
*HOPELESSLY IN LOVE*
*SLAVISH OBEDIENCE*
*ORAL FIXATION*
Not bad for starters, huh? If you can get a woman to experience
these kind of states in your presence (and to think about you
this way obsessively even when your not around) do you think you
are going to wind up with just a polite peck on the cheek, a
handshake goodnight, and a "let's just be friends", at the end
of the evening? Or is she going to be all over you like flies on
a mortician? You see, rather than thinking of how to get her to
do all the behaviors you want from her, i.e., humping, sucking,
etc., first think of what states of mind you want her to be in;
states where it would be natural for her to do all those nasty
things to and with you.
This brings us to a second key point that separates a Speed
Seducer from the Average Frustrated Chump. You see, the AFC
talks just to be flapping his lips, trying to be entertaining,
or maybe, gulp, trying to get the girl to understand him. The
Speed Seducer (and any good Master of Persuasion) knows that he
must ...
ALWAYS COMMUNICATE WITH A DIRECTION AND OUTCOME
IN MIND!!!!
You see, some of what I'm going to show you in later chapters
may cause you to think, "Will the girl understand what I'm
saying to her?". And my response is: THE PURPOSE OF YOUR
COMMUNICATION IS NOT TO GIVE HER AN UNDERSTANDING. THE PURPOSE
OF YOUR COMMUNICATION IS TO GET YOU A RESULT!!!!
That "result" is to put her in a state of lust, horniness,
fascination, etc. that you want her in, because once she's in
these states, it's natural for her to want to do all those nasty
things to your body and to want you to do them to hers.
A Little Metaphor To Further Your Understanding
Once, I asked a Master of Persuasion if he could give me a
better understanding of how to influence women. He told me the
following story:
"When I set out to influence a woman, I like to think of myself
as a fisherman. Everything I do, every action I take is
organized around landing that fish.
Now, I'll dangle the bait in the water, and then I'll watch to
see what the fish does. And the fish will come up and smell the
bait, and put it's mouth around the bait. And I'm watching to
see what part of the bait the fish likes.
Now, right here is where most people make their mistake. You
see, as soon as the fish bites down they start reeling in that
line like crazy. But I never do that, because I consider that I
only have a 10 pound fishing line to catch a 150 pound fish. So
if the fish feels me pulling on the line, it's going to pull
back and that line will S-N-A-P and no fish for me.
So what I do is stay right in front of that fish, and what I do
is I start reeling myself to the fish. So as I walk up on that
fish the fish doesn't feel any tug or pull on the line so it
doesn't resist me. And it just seems natural to it as I get
closer and closer to it. And the closer I get to it, the
stronger my line is and the smaller the fish gets. Till by the
time I'm right up to that fish with my net, I've got a 500 pound
line for a 10 pound fish. And the fish feels so natural that it
just eliminates it's own resistance and thinks, "Hey this is
right. This is natural. It's natural to jump in the boat, get
skinned, gutted, fried up and eaten!"
Now, wasn't that a nice story? I want you to think well on it,
because I don't want you to go making the same dumb mistakes I
made when I was first learning Speed Seduction.
Let me explain a bit. You see, when I first started out, I was
so excited by the fact that I could get very hot-looking women
sexually excited and turned on in just a few minutes time, that
I went right for the jugular every time out.
So, was I successful in getting these women hot and bothered?
You bet. But did I get laid doing it? USUALLY NOT!!! Because I
came on strong, without softening them up first that ...
I ONLY SUCCEEDED IN SCARING THEM OFF!!!!
That's right. Yes, if you first do the sexual patterns I'll
teach you, a woman will very likely get nicely hot and bothered.
But unless she is already a highly sexual person who will @*#$
at the drop of a hat, or she knows you quite well already,
getting her aroused and turned on to you right off the bat is
just going to scare her. She's just going to think ... "God, I'm
really getting hot, but I shouldn't be feeling this way. I don't
even know this guy!".
In other words, you're gonna tug the line so hard, it's going to
S-N-A-P and your fish is going to swim away.
Remember, as you use the patterns I'm going to show you, there
are considerations you have to keep in mind, like how well you
already know the woman and what kind of bond you've already
built with her; to what degree she already is a highly sexual
person; and finally if she has any major trust/control issues.
Therefore, it's usually extremely important to first use the
techniques I'll show you that create states of intense emotional
connection, as if she's known you her whole life, before moving
on to the sexual arousal stuff. When you create that kind of
connection (you can do it in about 7 minutes using what I'll
show you), you often don't even have to do the sexual stuff,
since for most women that kind of connection is what sex is all
about anyway. (Guys are different ... sometimes I think we just
want to dump loads?)
Patty Cake, Patty Cake, Baker's Man: Another Metaphor To Help
You Understand
One useful way to think about Speed Seduction is to consider the
process of baking a cake. First, before you even get out the
recipe, you have to WANT to bake the cake. You have to BELIEVE
you can bake the cake. Then, most importantly, you have to get
off your rear and ...
GET BAKING, BUDDY!!!
The various patterns I'm going to be sharing with you throughout
this course can be considered to be recipes. In order to use a
recipe correctly you not only have to make sure you have the
right ingredients, but you also have to make sure ...
YOU USE THEM IN THE RIGHT ORDER OR SEQUENCE!!
As an example, you don't whip up the cake mix, stick it in the
oven at 450 degrees for thirty minutes, and then, when you're
done, beat in the egg!!
The same holds true for the various patterns I'm going to show
you. You have to do them in the right sequence. The following
sequence is the formula to get virtually any woman you want to
be madly, passionately in love with you. It's what runs almost
every pattern I'll teach you.
1. Get her attention
2. Establish states of her feeling an incredible bond and
connection to you
3. Create states of horniness, arousal, attraction
4. Amplify those states, and link them to you
Now, don't wince at all this. Some of these patterns are only
three or four sentences along, and don't take more than 5
minutes to do!! The reason I'm taking such pains to explain is I
want you to understand how what you're doing works, so you can
improve upon it and come up with stuff even better!!
You see, the average Speed Seducer will just blindly memorize
the words of a seduction pattern, without understanding what
he's doing. And, in many cases this will work. He'll still beat
out his untrained competition 9 times out of 10.
But the smart guy, the true, blue, deep in the guts Speed
Seducer, will want to understand what he's doing. And he'll get
so good at it that ..
... THE GIRLS HE'S BANGING WILL BRING THEIR FEMALE FRIENDS
AROUND JUST TO SHOW THEM WHAT THEY'VE GOT, AND HE'LL WIND UP
NAILING THEM TOO!!
A Word about Softeners
One of the things that can be useful to you as you find yourself
using these patterns in a very powerful way, is to make sure you
soften what you do, by throwing in some fluff phrases.
For example, I'll often say things like, "You know, I hope you
don't mind my asking this, but one of the things I like to do is
to find out about the person I'm getting to know, and I do that
by asking questions about what's important to them. So as you
look at men and think about what we're talking about, I'd just
like to ask you:"
And then I get on to the pattern I'm going to use with her. Now,
you'll find that by doing this you can get away with stuff that
she'd normally might call you on.
Other softeners might be:
1. I know this might seem a little wild, but just for the
sake of this playful discussion we're having ...
2. I just want to say, and I hope you don't find this too
intrusive ...
3. Would you mind if I just asked you, just for the sake
of helping me to understand better ...
All of these work because they pace any possible objection she
might have to going along with you.
Rules and Attitudes Of Jeffries Speed Seduction
1. Always communicate with a direction or outcome in mind.
When you talk to a woman, never do it just to be flapping
your lips!! Think of the states you want her in and then
use your skills to direct her there!!
2. First create states of fascination, connection, feeling an
intense bond, before you move for the sexual stuff! Most
women will not feel comfortable if you get them aroused
first and S-N-A-P goes that fish line!
3. The purpose of your communication is not to give her and
understanding; the purpose is to get you a result!! Speed
Seduction works by manipulating and directing unconscious
processes, NOT by getting her conscious agreement. Leave
arguing and explaining to your competitors.
4. Speed Seducing is fun!! If you aren't being directed by a
playful attitude, then you aren't doing Speed Seduction.
5. Keep your skills a secret! Any technique works best if it
is hidden and unexpected, so don't tell them that you know
this stuff!!
6. Be a stainless steel fist in a velvet glove!! Always be as
low key and understated as possible in the application of
your skills. Not, "ha ha, I'm doing this to you", but "gee,
isn't it interesting how the mind works?"
7. Always go from least intrusive to most intrusive! Some of
the techniques I'll show involve getting people to picture
things inside their heads in a certain way. This is
something you always want to do LAST, when they are already
hot and horny and utterly fascinated by you, NEVER FIRST!!!
8. Never resist what a woman offers -- turn it around and use
it as leverage! Any response a woman makes to your moves
can be turned on her and used to get what you want, if you
relax and DON'T ARGUE or ASK FOR EXPLANATIONS. We'll show
you later how to utterly destroy a woman's objections and
bullshit, using this principle.
9. Challenge is where the fun is!! What isn't yet working is
the doorway to new power and understanding!!!
10. The less initial attraction she has for you, or the less
sexual a person she is, the more you'll have to rely on
juicing up her body feelings to get her to @*#$ you! You'll
find that every woman varies; some just need the intense
connection states to be pushed over the line; others you'll
need to add in sub-modalities and anchoring; and still
others will need an intense state description before they
pounce on you!! Watch what responses you are getting and
respond accordingly!
11. Use softeners liberally. By doing so, you'll be able to
introduce the wildest topics, as the most intrusive
questions, and still seem like a respectful, normal guy,
instead of a sex-crazed mind-fucker.
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Chapter One Review and Exercises:
Circle the right answer:
1. A smart Speed Seducer never plans the states he wants a
woman to experience. (True) (False)
2. Get a girl very hot and bothered first, and then create a
deep connection (True) (False)
3. Love is:
(A) All you need, yeah, yeah, yeah.
(B) A sweet mystery of life that no one can explain.
(C) A result of a internal mental process that can be
recreated if properly described.
(D) None of the above.
4. On a date the most important thing to think about is:
(A) Where to take her.
(B) Yourself.
(C) If she smells real bad down there.
(D) None of the above.
5. In the spaces below, list some of the states you'd like a
very hot woman to experience with you:
(A) absolute
(B) total
(C) incredible
(D) extreme
6. Nice guys usually only get women to experience states of:
(A) drooling lust
(B) mild comfort and enjoyment
(C) utter fascination
(E) None of the above
7. Speed Seduction works by:
(A) The magic of believing and thinking big
(B) Crossing your fingers and hoping the Good Fairy What
Sits In The Sky will grant your every wish
(C) Begging and pleading for a girl like you
(D) Deciding what states you want her to experience and
then skillfully describing and linking those states to
you.
8. Ross Jeffries is:
(A) The greatest genius the 20th Century has ever seen
(B) A veritable God among men and your one, true, guru
(C) Going to @*#$ your girlfriend if you give him half a
chance
(D) All of the above
9. A good example of a softener would be:
(A) Hey slut, mind if I ask you something?
(B) Do you mind if I ask you how much you like to give
head?
(C) When I'm getting to know someone, it's important to me
that I find out what they really want out of life. So,
if you don't mind my asking, what's really important
to you about ...
(D) Would you mind if I talked really dirty and suggestive
to you for a second?
"I never hit a woman with her clothes on!" ... Sean David Morton
Chapter 2
DO YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES TO BE A SPEED SEDUCER?
If you can answer "YES" to the following questions, then you can
qualify to be a great Speed Seducer. Obviously you have an
interest in Speed Seduction or you wouldn't be reading this
book. So here comes the real questions:
1. Do you sincerely wish to be able to seduce tons of
gorgeous woman, and have the power to create states of
overwhelming lust and attraction in the hottest women
around?
2. Do you want to start seeing these results in a matter
of 2 or 3 weeks, or are you just reading for
curiosity?
3. Are you willing to suspend your disbelief and try
something new, FIRST, before you decide if it's
possible?
4. Are you willing to give about half an hour a day, for
the next 21 days, training in Speed Seduction, if it
means a lifetime of power, confidence and astonishing
success with the hottest women you can imagine?
If you answered "YES" to these four questions, you are well on
your way.
You see, the first requirement for greatness in anything, in any
walk of life is ...
THE RIGHT ATTITUDE!!!
With the right attitude you can turn around virtually any
challenging area of your life and transform it into a TRIUMPH!!!
Without the right attitude, even the best of tools are just
useless deadweight.
The second requirement is KNOWING WHAT TO DO!! I will supply you
with that. I'll take you by the hand and lead you step by step
until you get so good at this you can make up your own stuff,
test it in the real world, and then send it to me for future
additions to this book!
But no one ... and I mean NO ONE, can make you have that
attitude. You just have to decide that this is it! No more
living a mediocre life. No more just getting by when it comes to
women! You want more than that. You deserve more than that. And,
most important ...
YOU WILL DO WHAT IT TAKES AND PAY THE PRICE TO GET MORE THAN
THAT!!!
Now listen: Speed Seduction is designed to work. But, the first
few times you try it, you might stumble a bit. That's normal.
That's how we learn to do anything. (And don't feel bad because
I stumbled for about a year in order to develop this into a
science so you won't have to stumble much at all!)
And a further thing to consider: even when you get very good at
these skills, sometimes, for whatever reason, you might run into
a string of girls that you just get nowhere with.
It isn't your fault. It's not that you're doing anything at all
wrong. It's just that ...
SOME GIRLS ARE WALKING AROUND DEAD INSIDE!
You see, you can't get blood from a stone, money from a broke
person, and you can't get passion from a frigid, cold, turnedoff
pussy. In order to get her to remember states she's
experienced before, and link them up with you, she has to have
experienced them before at some time in her life.
Other girls are just so fucked up in the head, they aren't worth
playing with!
But that's really not important. What's important is this: Are
you willing to go through the first few times of not quite
getting it, or running into some ice-queens, in order to MASTER
THESE SKILLS and enjoy a lifetime of fun with incredible women?
You see, in a sense, I'd like you to become like a pit bull when
it comes to mastering the skills of Speed Seduction.
What does a pit bull do, once it grabs hold of something? It
doesn't let go.
No sir. It'll hang on even when that something (or someone)
weights 10 times as much!! You can shake it, and slam it, and
try to pry it off, but once it gets its jaws around you ...
IT AIN'T LETTING GO!!!
Funny enough, but once you get this "pit bull" attitude, you can
actually start to relax, loosen up, and enjoy the experience
because you know that no matter what happens, you'll learning
something you can use the next time out!! Paradoxically, that's
when you start to win!! (Note: always look for paradoxes in
life; there is tremendous power in paradox!)
So, to help you get this "pit bull" attitude, I'd like to put
this book down and think a few minutes about what mastering
Speed Seduction will do for you. Think of the kind of life it
will let you enjoy with the kind of people you'd like to be
with, and what it will mean as far as the way you feel about
yourself, day after day, every day, when you've mastered it.
The other attitude you need to master, to get REALLY good at
Speed Seduction is that ...
BEING WITH YOU IS THE BEST POSSIBLE CHOICE ANY WOMAN CAN
MAKE!!!
See, if you come at the world with a sense of neediness, chances
are the world is going to slap your hand. But if, however horny
you might be, you really believe that you can please that woman
like no one else (and trust me, once you know how to create
those emotional highs for her using Speed Seduction, you'll see
how true that is!), then, then, then my friend she is going to
sense it and is going to ...
BEG TO HAVE WHAT YOU'VE GOT!!!
Finally, as a great Speed Seducer, you have to be willing to be
a little outrageous, to step outside your normal bounds, to go
out and CREATE YOUR OPPORTUNITIES!!! If for example, you see a
woman you'd like to meet, but she's walking in the opposite
direction, do you think, "Oh well. My timing's lousy? If only
she were going my way!".
No. Not if you're a Speed Seducer. A Speed Seducer takes one
look, decides to go for it, and then he turns around and ...
HE'S AFTER THAT WOMAN LIKE STINK ON $*!@!!!!!
Ah, the power of creative outrageousness! Now, will all women
appreciate your sense of adventure? Probably not. But look,
don't worry about scaring off the meek one. Just focus on ...
ATTRACTING THE ONES WITH A ZEST FOR LIFE!!!!!
Let's try a different metaphor. The Average Frustrated Chump is
a sensible economy sedan. The Speed Seducer in his approach to
women and life in general is ...
A NITRO-BURNING FUNNY CAR!!!!
'Nuff Said.

A WORD ABOUT "MISTAKES"
Every experience is simply an opportunity to learn, expand and
grow. There are no failures; only feedback. (I know sometimes
"feedback" can feel like "failure".) It's only failure if you
lay down and quit!!! Only you can determine how much power
you're going to give a woman to stop you!!
Chapter Two Review and Exercises:
1. In the space below, list all the benefits you'll get from
mastering Speed Seduction:
2. In the space below, describe what a dull, repulsive,
horrid, frustration filled failure your life will be if you
don't master Speed Seduction:
Chapter 3:
BASIC TOOLS OF SPEED SEDUCTION: EMBEDDED COMMANDS
One of the things you want to do when you use Speed Seduction,
is to get a woman's mind moving in a certain direction without
letting her know that that is what you're doing. Otherwise,
you're going to encounter a lot of resistance, and S-N-A-P goes
the fishing line.
You see, very few people ever want to feel like they are being
manipulated. That's not to say that they can't be manipulated or
don't want to be ... they just don't want to feel that's what's
happening.
Now, one of the basic tools to get anyone moving in the
direction you want are commands. Consider commands to be the
foot-soldier in your army of seduction.
Notice, I'm not talking about directly commanding a woman to do
something. We know that would just get her to resist us. As an
example, if you wanted a woman to feel an attraction to you, you
could, if you were brain dead, try the direct approach by saying
something like, "Debbie, as I talk to you, I command you to feel
very attracted to me!".
Like as not, Debbie would either walk away or slap you and then
walk away.
No. What you want to do is embed the command inside of a
sentence, so that it has the effect you want, without her
resisting.
In the above example, you could embed the command "FEEL VERY
ATTRACTED", by saying something like, "You know, some people
find, as they listen to someone who's very fascinating, that
they can FEEL VERY ATTRACTED, Debbie."
In this case, it seems like you're just talking about people in
general, but her unconscious mind picks it up and applies it to
her. THIS IS THE START OF YOUR MOVING HER IN ANY DIRECTION YOU
WANT HER TO GO!!!
THE IMPORTANCE OF TONALITY
It's important to understand that a command isn't just a matter
of wording, but the tone of voice you use.
In the English language, we have basically three kinds of
sentences:
1. Statements
2. Questions
3. Commands
A statement is uttered with an even tonality. "John walked
across the room."
A question ends with an up turn in tonality. "Who walked across
the room?"
A question ends with a down turn in tonality. "John ... walk
across the room!" Make sure when you give your commands that you
pause and then drop your tonality downward.
Weasel Phrases: Your Command Delivery Vehicle
Ok. There are many ways to embed commands in your language so a
woman's unconscious mind hears and obeys, but she doesn't catch
on consciously to what you're doing.
My favorite set-ups are what I call Weasel Phrases. Here are the
most important and useful Weasel Phrases that will have you
getting the hottest babes eager for your rod in minutes!! We'll
use each one to embed the command, "feel incredibly turned on".
1. When you ... "When you" presupposes that the woman is going
to do the thing or experience the state you describe, so
it's no longer open to debate or doubt. "When you feel
incredibly turned on do you find yourself compelled to act
on it?
2. What would it be like if ... This weasel phrase is in
effect, a command for the person to imagine the condition
or occurrence named or described after it. "What would it
be like if you were to feel incredibly turned on ?"
3. A person can ... By talking about a "person" it deflects
any resistance on the part of the woman, since you really
aren't talking about her. "A person can fell incredibly
turned on, talking with someone they really, really like!"
4. If you were to ... This is one of my favorite Weasel
Phrases!! By saying, "if" it deflects resistance while
directing the woman to imagine the experience, condition,
feeling or situation you are describing. "If you were to
feel incredibly turned on, do you think you might feel
compelled to act on it?" (There's a second command hidden
in that last sentence. Can you spot what it is?)
5. As you ... This phrase assumes the woman will do the
behavior or undergo the condition you describe. "As you
feel incredibly turned on, can you feel how excited you're
getting?"
6. It's not necessary to ... An example of one of my superweasel
patterns, negation, which we'll get into later. By
saying it isn't necessary, it eliminates any resistance,
since you're saying they don't really have to do it (even
though they will!). "It's not necessary to feel incredibly
turned on, as you listen carefully to what I say!"
7. You really shouldn't ... Another negation pattern. Since
you're saying they "shouldn't", its not like you're trying
to get them to do anything, aren't you? "You really
shouldn't feel incredibly turned on!!".
8. You might find ... Useful as the start of an intensifying
chain of phrases. It implies that they are going to
experience what you describe as something that just
happens, so it's not like you're commanding them to do it!!
"You might find as you feel incredibly turned on", it could
lead to your acting on it!
9. To the point where ... This phrase connects one thing your
victim is experiencing with the next thing you want them to
experience, so it's useful both as a connector and an
amplifier. "You might find those pictures start to get
bigger and brighter to the point where you feel incredibly
turned on!".
10. Invite you to notice ... This has the same effect as "you
might find" because it implies that what you describe is
going to happen. Plus, "invite" as pleasant connotations of
it being voluntary and polite! Ha! Super-manipulation, good
buddy! "And I invite you to notice, how the warmth of my
voice, can allow you to feel incredibly turned on!"
11. How surprised would you be to ... This implies that the
event you describe is certainly going to happen, and the
only question is how surprised she'll be by it! One of my
absolute favorite weasel phrases, an example is: "How
surprised will you be to find that you can feel incredibly
turned on?
Wow! Aren't those just great? Are you starting to feel
incredibly turned on yet? Whether you are or you aren't,
remember that using these basic building blocks, you'll be able
to create virtually any and all states you want to, very
rapidly, in the women you really desire.
Now, let's jump up a level in power. When you combine the Weasel
Phrase with a command verb, like "get", "become", "experience",
"remember", etc., and then tack on the state, process or
experience you want her to have, then ... presto! You've got
your embedded command.
In fact, the formula is:
Weasel Phrases + Command Verbs + States, Processes or
Experiences = Embedded Commands
(Example: What's it like when you become incredibly turned
on?)
See? Actually it's quite simple. Practice a bit and you'll soon
get the hang of it!!
Chapter Three Review and Exercises:
1. In the English language, a command ends with a:
(A) Up turn in tonality
(B) Down turn in tonality
(C) Even tonality
2. The purpose of using embedded commands is:
(A) Get a woman irritated and pissed off
(B) Increasing her resistance to you
(C) Move her mind in the direction you want it to go,
without seeming to be intruding or ordering in any way
3. Weasel phrases are used:
(A) To let a woman know you are manipulating her
(B) To set up an embedded command
(C) To show a woman how clever you are
4. From the chart below mix and match Weasel Phrases, Command
Verbs, and States, Processes or Experiences (SPE's) to form
your own embedded commands:
Weasel Phrases Command Verbs S.P.E.
When you ... become very horny
If you were to ... think about fantastic sex
How does it feel
when ... get in love
What's it like when
you ... remember having great sex
A person can ... experience fascination
As you ... have absolute lust
It's not necessary to ... forget incredibly
turned on
You really shouldn't ... fall all about him
You don't have to ... know someone's
attractive

Chapter 4:
THE POWER OF "HAVE YOU EVER"
Ok. Last chapter we had a look at weasel phrases. In this
chapter, we're going to look at the power of the super-weasel
phrase "HAVE YOU EVER". You're going to be seeing this phrase
pop up time and again in the patterns I'll show you, so as you
can see it's quite important.
Now remember, when you set out to influence, control and direct
a woman's thinking, you don't want to make it seem like that's
what you are doing, or else S-N-A-P goes that fishing line. This
is why we seldom, if ever, give a direct command, because she
might resist it.
Here's where the super-weasel phrase "HAVE YOU EVER" comes into
play. Let's say I wanted a woman to experience a state of total
fascination with me (Fascination is a good place to start with
... it's not quite as intense as total sexual arousal, but sets
a woman up for that and anything else you want).
I could walk right up to her, introduce myself and then try to
directly command her to feel fascinated by saying something
like, "I command you to go inside yourself, remember a time when
you felt totally fascinated by a man, and then feel that way
about me!".
It's not too likely that that would work.
However, saying something like this can, has and almost
certainly will work (notice the embedded commands, which I've
capitalized and put in boldface!)
"Let me ask you a question. Have you ever been totally
fascinated with someone? Like maybe as you were there, looking
at him, and you started to LISTEN CAREFULLY, it was like his
voice just seemed to wrap itself around you, and the rest of
your environment just disappeared, and your entire world,
everything you saw, became what was right in front of you? And
anything he described, you found that you could just PICTURE IT
CLEARLY? So you know, if he were to talk about a romantic walk,
on a moonlight beach, with your perfect partner, you could SEE
YOURSELF there with him, just enjoying what that would be like?"
Now, once you've got her fascinated, you'll want to move on from
there to other states, but the point is that the fascination is
now there to set her up for virtually anything. She won't be
able to look away from you or see or notice anyone else in the
room. I don't care if the best looking man in North America
walked in booky-butt naked ... you're the only one she's going
to see. And since you dropped in a suggestion that she clearly
picture anything you suggest, you've set her up to be an
excellent trance subject, even if she normally wouldn't be!!
Ha!!
This all works because the phrase "HAVE YOU EVER" only seems
like a question. Actually, it is a COMMAND!! It's a COMMAND to
go inside your memory, and find a time when you experienced the
thing that the person who is talking to you is describing. But
people don't consciously perceive it as a command, so they don't
resist. This sets them up for anything!!
Ok? Does that make sense? Here's the general formula for using
"HAVE YOU EVER" and then I'll go on to demonstrate some specific
applications:
1. Think of the state you'd like her to experience.
2. Start out by asking, "HAVE YOU EVER" and then name the
state you want her to experience.
3. Begin to describe what it would be like to experience that
state, and use this as an opportunity to drop in some
embedded commands that would help her to experience that
state.
4. Really get her into feeling of what that's like.
5. Link it to yourself.
Ok? So now, let's show you another specific: getting her to feel
a state of instantaneous, incredible connection to you!!!
Why Creating A Sense of Incredible Connection is Important
I realize I'm repeating myself here, but this is CRITICAL, so
listen up: for most women, creating a sense of incredible
connection and bonding is a required step before you get on to
the sexual arousal stuff, and in fact, can be the introduction
to a good sexual arousal pattern. You might find that this sense
of connection is so important to women that simply generating
it, without doing any of the more sexual stuff, is sufficient by
itself to get her to go totally ga ga over you.
You see, for most of us guys, sex is a matter of dumping our
loads. We'd do it with rocks, trees, mud, anything.
For most women (at least most uninfected, non-diseased women)
sex is very largely an expression of an emotional connection.
So, here are some great patterns to get you started. Here's one
I like to use right away, when I first meet a woman, say at a
party or bar.
After making her laugh and introducing myself, and maybe a
minute or two of fluff talk, I launch into the following:
You: Have you ever felt an INSTANTANEOUS connection with
someone? (Point to yourself) Like maybe as you were
there, looking at them, and you started to LISTEN
INTENTLY, it was like there was a cord of LIGHT
(gesture from your solar plexus to hers) going from
you to them? And as that cord began to GLOW, WITH THE
WARMTH of that connection, maybe you were even able to
IMAGINE A TIME IN YOUR FUTURE (gesture either to your
left or to your right ... at this point it really
doesn't matter), say six months from now, still
FEELING THAT SENSE OF INCREDIBLE CONNECTION, and
LOOKING BACK ON TODAY (point back to you) as having
been the start of it?
Them: Oh yeah ...
You: See, I think it's so funny how some people can JUST DO
THAT and LET IT HAPPEN INSTANTANEOUSLY (snap your
fingers) because for me it takes longer. But I do find
that during the course of an evening, as you REALLY
LISTEN to someone (point to yourself), and you START
TO RECOGNIZE those values and qualities in them that
you hold so dearly for yourself ... (pause) ... WITH
ME that's when you can MAKE THAT CONNECTION and really
FEEL THAT GROWING BOND.
Get the picture? See how we start out naming the state we want
her to experience and then help her good old unconscious mind
along by describing how to do it?
Of course, this general pattern works for the other great super
weasel phrase ...
"WHAT'S IT LIKE WHEN?"
(This, along with it's close relatives, "What would it be like
if" and "What would it feel like if" all work the same.)
Here's a good, "What's it like when" to use as a horny message
to leave on a woman's answering machine. Only do this AFTER
you've gone out at least once, or already got her hot and horny
on your first meeting.
"What's it like when you're so attracted to the sound of a man's
voice, that whenever you find yourself really listening, it's
like the warmth of that voice just starts to wrap itself around
you, and spread all through your body, maybe to the point where
you find yourself thinking about being with him in a ... mmmmmmm
... special way, in a way that would make you both feel ...
mmmmmmm, you know? So much so that as those pictures in your
mind get bigger, and bigger and more intense, and those feelings
... mmm ... intensify you could just experience an overwhelming
desire, a desire to be with him ... to the point where you just
had to pick up the phone, and invite him over?"
Did you notice now this pattern totally directs her internal
feelings and pictures by describing them in detail, and
therefore directing her to focus in on how it would feel? A good
understanding for you to have about any form of persuasion or
influence is:
When Skillfully Done, There Isn't A Bit Of Difference Between
Describing and Directing!!!
Chapter Four Review and Exercises
1. "Have you ever" works because:
(A) It acts as a command, while seeming to be a question
(B) It causes people to enter the state or undergo the
experience you name after the phrase "have you ever"
(C) It sets up a description of the process or state you
want people to experience
(D) All of the above
2. If you want a woman to get hot and horny:
(A) Order her to feel that way
(B) Ask her, "what's it like when you're incredibly
attracted to somebody?" and then go on to describe
that process and link it to yourself.
(C) Tell her all the reasons why your a great guy and how
lucky she is to be giving you some.
(D) Show her a picture of Ross Jeffries.
3. By properly describing a state of experience, you are in
fact:
(A) Wasting time you could be using to pressure her into
sex
(B) Wasting time because you could be ordering her flat
out to feel that way
(C) Directing her to undergo that state or experience
4. If you're going to describe an intense feeling state you
should:
(A) Only talk about body feelings
(B) Use pictures and sounds, as a lead in to body
feelings, which you then go on to describe and amplify
(C) Start with body feelings and end with pictures
(D) Use lots of foul, dirty language to get her hot!
Chapter 5:
THE POWER OF NEGATION
It takes all types to run this world, and this next super-weasel
pattern will help you deal with a type of woman who might
otherwise drive you bonko! You know the type: someone who has to
disagree or argue with everything you say. The technical term is
"mismatcher" or "polarity responder", but the practical term is:
bitch.
Anyway, negation allows you to play off her natural tendency to
negate or gainsay everything that comes out of your mouth. It
works by putting the word "not" or "don't" in front of the
suggestion you want to embed. ("Shouldn't" "don't" and "can't"
also can work just as well!). This is a perfect response to a
woman who is resisting you by saying, "We really shouldn't be
doing this!".
You response, using negation would be something like: (can you
pick out the embedded commands? In this example, I've put them
in italics)
"You're right. I shouldn't be pulling up your top. I shouldn't
be sucking on your incredible breasts. And you don't have to
feel the incredible pleasure you aren't experiencing right now!"
As Bugs Bunny would say, ain't I a stinker?
Would you like to see a combination of quotes and negation?
What's that you say? You would?
Ok. Try this:
My friend was shocked the other night, when a woman walked right
up to him, looked him in the eye and said, "it's not important
that you imagine me going down on you all night long!"
Can you see how these patterns can work together to multiply
their power? Of course, as I said to a friend of mine "you don't
have to imagine yourself six months from now, already having
mastered these patterns, and looking back on today as having
been the start of it!"
(Special Note: Chapters 6, 7 and 8 all deal with what I call
accelerators: patterns designed to create states of intense lust
and arousal! Use with caution, and only after creating those
wonderful states of absolute comfort and total, timeless
connection!!!)

Chapter 6:
USING THE POWER OF QUOTES AND OTHER STATE ACCELERATORS AND
INTENSIFIERS
Ok. Let's say you've already managed to capture a woman's
attention and directed her into a state of fascination, intense
connection, or something of that sort. Now you want to move
things along by getting her hot and horny ... moving her into a
state of intense arousal.
Now, there are several tools to do that. One of my absolute
favorites is the pattern called quotes.
Listen: quotes is not that unfamiliar to you already. Remember
when you were a little kid, and saying "fuck" was a big deal,
because it use to get you punished big time?
Personally, I used to get my mouth washed out with soap, so I
hatched a scheme. Rather than say "fuck" directly, I'd tell my
mom what some other foul-mouthed little kid down the block said.
That way, it wasn't like I was saying it ... I was just
repeating something I'd heard.
So I boldly strode into the kitchen, approached dear old Mother,
and said, "Mom! Mom! Tommy down the street said, "fuck" and
"cocksucker" !" (Hey, I figured, since I was going for it, I
might as well go for it!)
Of course Mom just said, "Nice try, kid" and slapped me silly,
but that's not the point. The point is, with a little subtlety,
you can use quotes as an accelerator or amplifier for the states
of arousal you want a woman in.
Let's say for example you'd like for a woman to imagine you
going down on her and her feeling really hot and horny. Those
are pretty good pictures for a woman to be running in her mind,
and feelings to be having when she's with you, wouldn't you
agree?
Of course you would! So here's how to do it! After a general
discussion of how the mind works, and using that to get her in
states of intense fascination, connection, etc.,, you'd say
something like this: (oh, by the way ... notice the embedded
commands are in boldface)
You: Some guys are so crude. I mean, I was raised to be at
least a little respectful, but you wouldn't believe
what I saw this dude do the other night!
Her: What?
You: He walks right up to this girl, looks her right in the
eye and says, "Can you imagine me going down on you
all night long, and you getting so hot and turned on
that you were begging for it?"
Her: God!
You: I mean, can you believe that? Did he actually expect
her to picture that all night long, and even become
obsessed with those kind of thoughts?
Now, if you really want to play with her noggin' you could keep
going from there. You could really get her dripping in her seat
by saying something else like:
You: Now, see, if I was a girl, and someone tried something
like that on me ... I'd play right back with 'em. I'd
look 'em in the eye and say, "Oh yeah? Well, you know
that feeling you get just before you have an orgasm?
When the pleasure is just like building and pulsing
and pounding through your body? If you could imagine
that feeling, could you feel it right now?
Isn't that great? Remember, quotes, like the other accelerator
patterns I'll show you, should generally be used after you've
established that sense of connection, etc. You can embed
virtually any weasel pattern, phrase or series of commands
inside quotes and keep it totally safe, since it isn't like
you're saying it to her. You're only quoting what someone else
said!
Understand also that you can combine quotes with virtually any
other pattern I teach, if for some reason you don't feel
comfortable being direct. QUOTES DOES NOT HAVE TO BE LIMITED TO
THE "SEXUAL AROUSAL" PATTERNS!!!!
So here's the general formula for using quotes:
1. Think of what it is you'd like to say to a woman, but
couldn't say to her directly.
2. Start off by telling her something like, "You wouldn't
believe what I heard this person say to someone! He walked
right up to her and:
3. Stick in what it is you'd like to say.
4. Stick in a command to make her continue to think about it.
Simple, yes? Later, we'll show you how to integrate the use of
quotes into other patterns, but now let's go to another
accelerator which is:
TALKING ABOUT ANOTHER PERSON'S EXPERIENCE
Now, the difference here between this and quotes, is that with
quotes, you're quoting what someone else said. With this
pattern, you're talking about another person's EXPERIENCE as a
way of getting your target hot and bothered.
Example:
What's the feeling of realizing you're really attracted to
someone? My friend Kim was telling me that her roommate has
this best friend, Dawn. And when Dawn starts to notice that
growing attraction, it happens in a certain way.
Like first, as she looks at the guy, and starts to REALLY
PAY ATTENTION, she just becomes aware of certain things ...
like the rhythm of her breathing, and the beating of her
heart, and the outline of his face ... so as she becomes
aware of all these things, one particular feature of his
face just starts to rivet her attention, so she becomes
totally absorbed in the connection taking place ... and as
that's all happening, it's like the warmth of his voice,
the deep rich warmth of it, just starts to penetrate her
consciousness, and spread all through her body, and as her
heart beats faster and her breathing increases, that warmth
just heats up into a fire, a fire spreading through her
chest and down through her belly, a fire pounding and
pulsating all through her, down to where she really longs
to have it go, until that desire for him just BECOMES
UTTERLY OVERWHELMING, and she just SURRENDERS to it
completely.
Now, notice we aren't asking or demanding or suggesting that she
directly experience all this. But by describing the experience
of another (or even ourselves) she has to undergo the experience
for herself!!! And please bear in mind we set her up to accept
all this by FIRST creating states of intense connection!!!
So now you see how to use either quotes, or describe another
person's experience to get women into the juiciest states of
dripping wet arousal. Go use it on someone TONIGHT!!!
Chapter Six Review and Exercises:
1. In the space below, write your own quotes pattern, using
the commands, "imagine having amazing sex with me" and "get
incredibly hot and horny":
2. Pick any 3 weasel phrases from Chapter 3, and in the space
below, construct a quotes pattern for each one of them:
3. Explain the difference between quotes and describing
another person's experience:

Chapter 7:
MORE ACCELERATORS: THE POWER OF SUB-MODALITIES
What better way to get a woman hot and bothered for you than to
have her picturing mind-blowing sex with you? We've seen how to
use embedded commands to get her to do this ... now in this
chapter I'll show you how to do it in some special ways that
will tremendously magnify the power and vividness of those
fantasies so she becomes utterly obsessed and compelled to act
on them. Be warned ... this is really dynamite!!
Watch Where You're Stepping: Thoughts Are Present
In my first book, "How To Get The Women You Desire Into Bed", I
pointed out that there's an important distinction in how people
make mental pictures. That distinction was that people can
either see themselves in an image, or they can see what they
actually saw at the time they had the experience. (Typically,
you don't see yourself when you actually experience something
unless you walk around with a mirror in front of you all day
long!)
Now I'd like to teach you an even more important distinction
which is this: people subjectively arrange their mental pictures
in different locations in their head. This distinction also
applies to where people seem to hear the internal voices in
their heads.
An Important Exercise To Help You Understand
Let's give an example of the power of where you put your
pictures in your mind: stop a minute and think of someone you
really, really like. Someone you're very fond of. As you do
this, and you see their image in your mind, take your finger and
point to where you seem to see that image.
If this is a little hard for you, just imagine your mind is like
a mental movie screen. Take note of where on the screen the
image is. Up? Down? To the left? The right? Where the fucking
hell is that image, bb? And, by the way, how big is it?
Ok .. now ... think of someone you don't like at all. Someone
who, if you could, you'd sentence to spend eternity as Roseanne
Barr's bicycle seat. Where do you see that person's image? How
big is it?
Now ... as you think of both images at the same time you'll
really begin to notice that they are in different places in your
mind, subjectively speaking. Notice what happens now as you try
in vain to move the picture of the person you don't like into
the same location as the picture of the person you do.
It doesn't want to go, does it? It's just like something is
fighting it.
Now why might all this be useful? Why might you want to know
where a woman puts her pictures of falling in love? Why might
you want to know where a woman puts her pictures of men who no
longer mean anything to her? Hmm? Could it be that if you found
out where in her mind a woman pictures falling in love, that you
might want to somehow sneak a picture of you and her together in
that place, doing nasty things, and then rig it up so that she
sees those images obsessively?
Could it maybe also possibly be the case that if she's already
dating someone, you'd like to be able to put his picture in the
location of someone she's forgotten all about and lost all
feeling for? If I could really show you how to do all that,
would you mind that I ended that last sentence with a
preposition, something my seventh grade grammar teacher Mrs.
Edge would have slapped me for? (Whoops ... I did it again!)
How To Find Out Where She Puts Her Pictures And What To Do With
That Information Once You've Got It!!!
The best way to find out where a woman puts her mental pictures,
is, of course, to ask. You should do this as part of an overall
discussion of how interesting the mind is. Try a dialogue like
this.
You: Did you know your mind puts pictures in different
places, according to how you feel about them?
Her: What do you mean?
You: Well, look: think of someone who you really, really
like alot. Ok?
Her: Ok.
You: And now, if you were to just imagine your mind to be
like a giant movie screen, and if you were to point to
where on the screen you see the picture of that
person, point to where you see it.
Her: (pointing) Ok.
You: Good. Now, if you think about someone who you don't
like at all, or someone who you just think of as
neutral, point to where you see that.
Her: (pointing) Ok.
You: Good. Now, watch ... take the picture of the person
you don't like, and try to move it into the same place
as the picture of the person you do really like. It
doesn't want to go, does it?
Alright. Get it? That's how you get her started. You can then
move on to getting her to point to where she falls in love,
forgets people, etc..
A Very, Very Important Note:
Now ... bear something else in mind. Some women just aren't that
effected by the pictures they have in their heads. Even if you
do get them PICTURING sexual acts, it still doesn't get them all
that turned on. For them, sounds and feelings are most powerful.
So you can even have her hearing sounds in a way that gets her
REALLY HOT, using sub-modalities. To do so, you'd say something
like this:
You: Ok. Point to that space where you fall in love. Great. Now,
as you THINK ABOUT THAT SPACE AS I TALK TO YOU ... as you ALLOW
MY VOICE TO COME FROM THAT SPACE, I just invite you to NOTICE
HOW THE DEEP RICH WARMTH of that voice just starts to penetrate
your thoughts, and start to spread all through you, and that
sure feels great, doesn't it?
Now, later in this book we will show you some patterns that do
just that, and more, but for now, here are some very important
points to keep in mind:
1. Moving people's mental pictures is very, very powerful but
also EXTREMELY INTRUSIVE!!!! It should only be done once
you have really "snuck up on the fish" and the fish is
already in a state of wanting to jump into the boat !!!
2. When you move a woman's mental pictures it is almost never
advisable to directly command her to move them. So, don't
say something like: "Now, take that picture of me, and put
it right there in that place in your mind where you fall in
love!!" ERRRRRRRRRRRR!!!! WRONG!!!!
This would be more like it: "You know, sometimes I find that,
when you spend time with someone, and you really start to
experience that incredible bond, and feel totally comfortable,
you can just start to (point to where she falls in love) picture
being together with them in a special way, in that special place
in your mind!"
By the way, can you find the embedded commands? (Experience that
incredible bond ... feel totally comfortable ...)
3. When you move a woman's mental picture's it's often
advisable to add in a post-hypnotic suggestion to keep
those pictures from moving back!! So, for example, let's
say you've done a pattern we'll show you in a later
chapter, that gets her to put her current boyfriend's
picture into a location that makes him seem completely
unimportant. To prevent it from popping back you'd say
something like:
Now, you may be surprised to find how common everyday things,
like flipping the light switch, or walking in your front door,
or stepping into the shower can remind you to keep those
pictures down there! And the more they struggle and fight to
come back, the smaller and darker they get ... to the point
where you just can't even see them anymore, ever again!
Notice here we've linked what we want her mind to do to some
common, everyday event. If we linked it to every time Haley's
comet passes by or the Mets win the World Series we'd get
nowhere.
Chapter 7 Review and Exercises
1. Find a friend (male or female) and elicit from them the
location in their mind of someone they like and someone
they don't. (Tell them it's all part of a psychology
experiment you read about in a book) Note the differences
in where they see these images. Then try and get them to
move the picture of the person they like to the same place
as the picture of the person they don't, note the results.
2. Now ... ask the same person from exercise one to think of
one of those two people but DON'T tell you which one it is.
Your job will be to guess by watching where his eyes go as
he thinks. Almost always his eyes will go in the same place
he pointed originally. So if he or she pointed up and to
the left when as the place where they put someone they
like, chances are that's where they will look when they
think of that person again.
Chapter 8:
MORE ACCELERATORS; DIRECTIVE AND CONVERSATIONAL ANCHORING
Have you ever heard the expression, "Don't re-invent the
wheel?". Well the same idea applies strongly in Speed Seduction.
You see, building states of fascination, arousal, lust, etc. can
be done very quickly; no doubt about that. But once you've built
those states, why not make sure you have a way to turn them on
again any time you want to, without having to go throw building
them all over again? In other words, if you initial investment
of time in getting a woman in all these states is, say, 20 to 30
minutes, wouldn't it be great to be able to get her back into
those states with a one word or a touch, or even a glance, in
about one second?
Now that would really be Speed Seduction, wouldn't it?
Your basic tool for doing this is ANCHORING, and the principle
of anchoring is simple: if you get a person in a certain state,
and then combine that state with a touch or a sound, the
person's brain will associate that state with that sound or
touch, so later, if you produce that sound or touch, the person
will go back into that state.
There are two basic types of anchoring.
Two Types Of Anchoring: Directive Demonstration and Non-
Directive, Conversational
Some of the very best "Speed Seduction" patterns are
conversational: with these, you don't ever tell her to do
anything, she just does it automatically by virtue of listening
to you.
Other patterns (in the minority, but still powerful, to be
sure!) do require that you direct her to do things. But even
here it's not so much ordering as it is asking her to
participate so you can demonstrate to her some interesting
principle of the mind.
You can anchor using either one of these frames of doing things.
Conversational Anchoring:
One of the best and simplest and hardest to detect ways to
anchor is to talk to someone about a certain state of mind, as
we've shown you how to do using your favorite weasel patterns,
HAVE YOU EVER or WHAT'S IT LIKE WHEN? Then, once you've finished
describing that state or experience and the person is really
experiencing it, you just reach over and touch them, and as you
do so, you say, "Can you feel that (pause for a second) would be
a wonderful experience to have?".
Now ... let me explain this for a second. It's using something
we call ambiguity. You see, when you ask the person, "can you
feel that" as you touch them, at first their mind thinks you
mean "can you feel this touch I'm giving you?" and of course
they instantly think, "yes". But then, when you go on, after
that split second pause, to add in, "would be a wonderful
experience to have?" they then become a bit confused, and go
back and associate all those wonderful feelings to that touch
you just gave them. The link has instantly been made,
unconsciously, so there's nothing they can do but feel those
feelings whenever you touch them.
Directive, Demonstration Anchoring
Sometimes, the context of the pattern you're running allows you
to be a little more direct. Sometimes, for example, I'll explain
to a woman a little bit about what I do, and I'll use that
opportunity to demonstrate (and install: remember there's no
difference between description and directing, when it's done
correctly?) anchoring on her. Keep in mind that I've started out
talking to her about other things to peak her curiosity and that
I don't start by demonstrating anchoring ... that's too intense
and too intrusive to start. (Remember the idea of a cake recipe
... everything in the right order?) Keeping that in mind, you'd
do something like this:
YOU: Can you remember a time when you were feeling ... mmmm
... absolute pleasure in your body? (note here that
your vol