A funny thing happened today, I was cleaning out a drawer at work and I came across my notepad notes from when I first started doing everything. I was almost laughing at the notes I took and what openers I choose but they worked, and I'm going to share them with you. These are pretty common openers but as I remind you with canned material its not what you say but more so how you say it. Some of the notes are random but you'll get the idea.
These came right off my cheat sheets that I kept in my back pocket in field for months.
J. Smooth Blindfold Opener"Hey guys let me get your opinion on something...Insert False Time Constraint....Would you let anyone you hardly know blindfold you? (Don't wait for an answer) Get this...my best friend xxx was downtown and met this girl. They clicked and had a good time hanging out and stuff. Well she wants to take him out for a romantic evening but the HITCH is she wants him to wear a blindfold so he doesn't know where he's going. Would you do this?" (Get everyone's opinion)
If yes- You'd let some guy you barely no blindfold you, I see what kind of stuff you're into.
OR What if he ends up abducted by aliens or joins the circus or something? LOL
In no- Where is your sense of adventure"
The others are common so I'm just going to list them...if you need the exact wording PM me or ask below.*Text Message Breakup
*Who Lies More
*ESP Test
*Spells Opener
*Fight Outside
*Dental Floss Opener
If a guy is in the set approach the guy...
(Guy) Nice Shirt Opener
"Hey man where did you get that shirt...I use to have a shirt exactly like that. Then my past-girlfriend borrowed it, and I've never seen it since. It's like I have to buy two of everything, you know what I mean?
How do you guys all know each other?"
*Pay attention to the guy, and be his friend. Ignore the target*
I Stacked with...*Best Friends Test
*The Cube
*5 Lies
*Girl Masturbation Factoid
*Question Game
*Girlfriend Airport Story DHV
*Cold Reading
A2 Notes...*Choose a target and neg her
*IOIs- reinitiates conversation, touches you, asks name, builds comfort & rapport, eye contact, touches hair, giggles, gives compliments, asks if you have a girlfriend, or introduces you to her friends.
*Throw and Go your negs
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"How do you all know each other?"*Pick a routine or DHV story
Negs to Use...*Nice Dress...those are popular these days
*Where's your off button?
*Its like she poops words...
*Nice nails...are they real? Well they look good on you anyways...
*You know why you and I would never get along...We're too much alike
*You know why you and I would never get along...we'd argue all the time and I'd win
*You're too much of a nice girl for me
Other things in my notes...Multithread...False Time Constraint Frequently, Look for the non-verbal hook, Turn to as she hooks but not too soon, 3 SECOND RULE, Calibrate, approach at an angle, look for IOIs.
I just had this and a few notes about winging for when I was with my buddies like what accomplishment intro I'd use for them. I didn't really have a lot for A3 because I was just starting out. This is like 10-15 minutes of material and that's all I was worried about starting out with. Typically, I'd just hang around after this as long as I could, or I'd wimp out and eject because I didn't know what to say. This is all I was concerned about knowing when I opened, and I re-read these notes it seemed like 100s of times before I'd go in the club.
Peace Guys