Your frame and the girl's frame

Our frames need to be fairly close to the frame of the girl we're gaming. If our frame is too small, she'll overtake it. If our frame is too big, we could blow her out.

That means we need to adjust our frame, in accordance with the girl we're gaming.

How do we do that? Mainly by calibration. By pushing and pulling. Seeing where the girl is in relation to us. We have to test her boundaries, and, if her frame is of any size, and any strength, she will also test our boundaries, which is a good thing.

As this testing progresses, and you see that her frame is bigger and stronger than what you maybe originally guessed, you stretch yours. You keep your frame bigger than hers by doing this. At the same time, you are steadily sucking her into your world. Deeper and deeper.