What Attracts Women "Sexually"

What Attracts Women "Sexually"


>I've put together a killer "video starter kit" of
some of my very best mind sets, approaches, and
techniques for attracting women. I call it "The 77
Laws Of Success With Women And Dating". You can
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http://www.DatingTechniques.com/77Laws




ONWARD...

I'd like to talk about a concept that is rather
difficult for most men to "get".

Ironically, it's a concept that's rather easy
to understand, but because it's so illogical and
"counter intuitive" it's also easy to miss
entirely.

It's understanding what attracts women
sexually.

And what I'm about to share with you took me
literally YEARS to figure out... even though it
was right in front of my face the whole time.

When I first decided to get this area called
"Women and Dating" handled in my own life, I did
what I think most guys do... I THOUGHT a lot about
it, I READ a lot about it, and I ASKED a lot about
it.

I've spent a lot of time studying psychology
and human behavior, because it fascinates me...
and I figured that all of my understanding about
how people worked would really give me an
advantage in this quest I had started.

And since I think I'm pretty smart, I figured
that this would be something that I'd get figured
out rather quickly.

Well, what a humbling experience I was in for.

As I soon learned, it's not easy to solve an
illogical problem by thinking about it logically!

In fact, now that I know better, I think that
ATTRACTION is rather logical... it's just that how
it works is so UNEXPECTED that it SEEMS illogical.
q But for now, let's just use the term "illogical"
because it forces the mind to put aside pre-
conceived notions of what "should" happen.

As I was trying to figure all this stuff out
for myself (and keep in mind, I had no idea that I
would later write a book to help others) I kept
running into challenges.

It seemed that every logical thing I did just
didn't work in a way that made sense.

One of the biggest mistakes I made was ASSUMING
THAT ATTRACTION WORKED THE SAME WAY FOR WOMEN THAT
IT DOES FOR MEN.

It only made sense that since men are attracted
to looks and sweet personalities that women should
be too... right?

So, of course, I tried to work this angle by
wearing nice clothes, doing nice things for women,
and being the NICEST guy you could ever meet. I
was accommodating to the extreme. I would do
whatever a woman wanted, and basically accepted
whatever flaky or manipulative behaviors she used
with me.

But since none of that stuff seemed to really
help at all, I just kept coming to the same
conclusion:

I MUST NOT BE ATTRACTIVE ENOUGH, GOOD LOOKING
ENOUGH, RICH ENOUGH, OR SOMETHING ENOUGH.

I was doing everything I could imagine to be a
nice, sweet, great guy... but women just didn't
seem to respond to me in a "sexually attracted"
way...

"It must just be me that's the problem" I
thought.

Well, fortunately for me, I'm not one to quit
easily.

I stuck with it, and I finally did something
that had a PROFOUND impact on my personal
success...

I MADE FRIENDS WITH DIFFERENT GUYS WHO WERE
"NATURALLY" SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN AND I WATCHED
WHAT THEY DID.

When I think back now, I think to myself "DUH!"

But it REALLY made a huge difference.

By watching different guys in different
situations as they interacted with women, got
phone numbers, went out on dates, and even made
"physical" moves, I learned a lot.

What really fascinated me was that these
different guys, who in many cases didn't even know
each other, were doing EXACTLY THE SAME THINGS in
many cases.

And the REALLY mind-blowing part was that the
great techniques they were using were "no big
deal" to them, and therefore had never been
organized and taught in the "main stream".

By imitating what I learned from these new
friends, and by getting their help, all of a
sudden my success began to SKYROCKET. I mean big
time.

I went from barely being able to talk to a
woman and get her number to having 3 or 4 dates a
week. It was great.

But there was a problem...

IT STILL DIDN'T MAKE ANY *&@# SENSE TO ME!

Even though I had more "game", and better
techniques... and women were responding better to
me, things still didn't "feel" quite right.

I didn't always get the same results when I did
things with women. Now, you'll never get 100%
consistency with anything in the real world, but
it was just TOO inconsistent most of the time.

And even worse, women would either fall in love
with me quickly or not call me back after the
first few dates most of the time.

I knew enough to be dangerous, but not enough
to really, really understand what was going on.

Well, fast-forward to now.

In the last several years, I've written a book,
produced seminars at both ends of the country,
released several comprehensive CD and/or DVD
programs, and generally spent a lot of time
teaching and refining this material.

A major benefit that this has provided me is
the ability to explain things better and faster...
and I'd like to give you a quick explanation of a
CRITICAL aspect of female sexual attraction that,
once you understand it, can literally change your
life FOREVER with women.

Here's the revelation:

Men are more attracted to physical traits, and
women are more attracted to PERSONALITY traits.

Men get sexually aroused and "turned on"
instantly at the sight of a young, shapely female
body. As a man, you know that this process happens
instantly and "all by itself", meaning you don't
really have a choice in the matter.

Well, WOMEN get sexually aroused initially and
"turned on" when they interact with a man that has
certain QUALITIES and PERSONALITY TRAITS.

WOMEN BECOME INSTANTLY TURNED ON SEXUALLY WHEN
THEY ARE IN THE PRESENCE OF CERTAIN PERSONALITY
TRAITS, JUST LIKE MEN BECOME TURNED ON BY CERTAIN
PHYSICAL TRAITS... AND THE GOOD NEWS IS THAT ANY
MAN CAN LEARN THESE TRAITS AND INTEGRATE THEM INTO
HIS OWN PERSONALITY.

If you're as fascinated with this process of how
and why women get turned on differently than men,
and you'd like to read more about it, go here:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/PowerSexuality



Think about that for a moment.

Men become turned on by what they can see.
Women become turned on by what can NEVER be seen.

And even when it comes to the physical, women
are still more interested in the HOW than the
WHAT...

It's not as much his body as the way a man
holds it and carries it.

It's not as much his voice as the way a man
uses it.

Do physical looks, money, fame, power, height,
age, etc. play into this at all?

Of course they do.

But they're not NEARLY as important as most men
think they are.

If you're tall, handsome, rich, and famous...
great. You'll probably have an easier time
attracting women. But just watch the tabloids...
this can open the door for a guy, but it doesn't
at all guarantee that the woman will stay around.
There are a LOT of rich, famous, powerful men who
still have no success with women.

To sum up...

- Attraction is different for men than it is for
women.

- While men are attracted mostly by physical
traits, women are attracted mostly by PERSONALITY
traits.

Women don't decide who to feel attracted to
with their logical minds. They "decide" with their
emotions and then make up reasons and rationalize
it.

ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE!

This is why some men attract women so well,
while others don't... and why ANY man can improve
his success with women DRAMATICALLY, no matter
what his looks, age, or income.

I want you to think about what you've just
read, and pay attention when you're out watching
men and women interact.

Start noticing those things that men are doing
to attract women that are related to their
PERSONALITIES and their COMMUNICATION with women.
You'll see things you've never seen before, and
learn secrets that will improve your success with
women tremendously.

Of course, if you want to shave a couple of
YEARS off the learning curve, and get a detailed
description of those qualities and methods of
communicating that women find SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE,
then I recommend that you check out my Advanced
CD/DVD Program.

In it, I spend several HOURS going into great
detail and teaching the exact, step-by-step
process of communicating with women in a way that
triggers their SEXUAL ATTRACTION mechanism.

You'll also learn HUNDREDS of specific
techniques for approaching women, getting emails
and numbers, kissing, "getting physical", dating,
and everything else that has to do with success
with women. You can go listen to samples and check
it out at:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/AdvancedSeries



And if you'd like an introduction to my main
concepts and to learn the basics of how to be more
successful with women and dating, then go right
now and download my eBook "Double Your Dating". It
comes with three bonus booklets that are
INVALUABLE and CRITICAL to your understanding of,
and success with, women. It's all at:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/eBook

Thanks for tuning in, and I'll talk to you in a
couple of days.

Your Friend,

David D.