Me: Would you mind telling Steph she needs to be ready in 10 mins? I'll be at her front door and we need to go.
Steph: Yep, I'll pass it along.
Me: Good, if she's not ready, I'll know who to blame :p
Steph: So, you'll spank her . . . or me?
Me: You'd both like that too much. She'd like it more, so I guess it'd have to be you. Just make sure it doesn't come to that
Steph: I'm not sure I can keep her in line like that :p
Anyway, there's an example that goes along with your Matt.
Role playing is always fun, and if the girl isn't the type to play along with it, she's likely not very fun, lol.
Honestly, to start texting right after I meet a girl, a lot of times I'll actually start off very polite and cordially. "Nice meeting you tonight. You have a good night." When she responds just as nice and cordially "Ty, nice meeting you too." I can turn around and invite her to whatever is going on the next time I'm going out. If she had a good time, she's likely to be receptive.
Other ways I start text game I'll have to share later, when I have a few more mins and can go back through my mental rolodex, lol.