Do it on Purpose . . . to become a Natural

Yes, you do steps on PURPOSE, consciously . . . to in the end become NATURAL at doing these things so that you don't have to constantly think about them.

Personally, I find it extremely hilarious when guys pop out of the woodwork and hollar . . . "JUST BE YOURSELF! THAT'S HOW YOU PICK UP GIRLS!"

The same guys are ones that have ALREADY USED some system and IT WORKED for them . . . and they typically have internalized the stuff. Then they come to everyone else and say "I used the system, but you don't need it! Just be yourself!" Honestly, it's a crock. They are lying to themselves and hypocrits of the very thing they are spouting against.

Anyway, here's the point of this.

Yes, with a system, you have to consciously make the effort to follow each step to progress yourself to the end of the game, the full close. Here's what people miss. The "naturals" are naturals because they learned, at some age, what to do. In other words, they became "natural" because they purposely followed a set of principles, or some plan, or followed what someone who was successful was already doing. They internalized the stuff and made it seem . . . dare I say . . . "natural".

Why does it now seem natural for them? Well, because it IS natural for them . . . NOW. It wasn't always. I don't care who you watch, who you talk to. If the person is HONEST, and you dig, there was SOME source they learned it from. Maybe it wasn't a guru, maybe it wasn't some teacher in the PUA community. Maybe they learned it from their dad or big brother. What ever the case, they STILL learned it from SOMEONE. So . . . they followed a set of principles and became . . . natural at the objective.

Just as a computer programmer can become a natural. Or a race car driver becomes a natural. Or a successful sales person becomes a natural. In other words, with any occupation you can think of, the most successful ones seem to be "natural". Well, they learned the techniques, the processes, etc., to be that natural seeming person.

So it is with PUA. You go through the steps, the techniques, the system, the process, the journey, the learning . . . to become, ultimately, a natural.

Those who teach "natural" game . . . they are still teaching you techniques or some system. Even if they say it's not a system . . . if you don't go by their teachings . . . ahem . . . you're not following the "natural" . . . "method".

The point here is, you MUST do it on purpose. It has to start that way. You can't "fall into it" or "happen to do everything just right". Not every time anyway. Sure, sometimes, in odd situations, it could work that way. But you won't be a natural consistently that way. It must be on purpose.

You have to START doing certain steps on purpose. Sure, it'll SEEM tough to follow a step by step plan or method at first. Nothing worth learning, or worth becoming good at, is easy. So, you start doing things on purpose.

However, the payoff . . . well it's massive, to say the least. The end result, how you will be, who you will become, a more polished you, you will absolutely LOVE. There's no doubt about that.

So, what are your excuses? What's keeping you from taking some steps on PURPOSE to become that more polished you? Really. What's holding you back? What are your crutches? Why are you not letting go of them?

Come on. Take the first step. Put your foot on the floor. Do it on purpose. Open your mouth. Do it on your purpose. Find intriguing parts of yourself. Do it on purpose. Notice fascinating things about ladies around you and talk to the ladies about those fascinating things. Do it on purpose. Smile at the ladies. Do it on purpose. When she is looking at your mouth . . . kiss the sweet lady. Do it on PURPOSE.

You'll be surprised where all this will lead you. All the way . . . to . . . being . . . a . . . voila . . . NATURAL. Yes, that's right, one day you will suddenly realize you've BEEN doing what it takes to attract the women you like TO YOU . . . without even thinking about it. And that, my friend, will feel good. But you must start . . . ON PURPOSE.