Looking for LTR's/Finding the right balance

Alright, if you desire a fool's mate, that's pretty easy in that you build a LOT of attraction QUICKLY, and just enough comfort for her to feel safe and get the job done. You have to be willing to escalate quickly and not stop the escalation in order to achieve this. The same with an SNL.

However, if you're looking for an LTR, you have to find the right balance. No longer is it JUST about escalating the attraction and a bit of comfort to get her to open her legs for you. No, now you need to balance the attraction and comfort.

Sure, all the same attraction switches still apply, but the pace is slightly different, because it's long term, not hit it and quit it.

Just some food for thought.