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L.A. Tripp

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PostSubject: Finding Yourself   Fri May 08, 2009 9:07 pm

Guys, when you are out picking up a girl, or looking to pick a girl up, and you discover she doesn't know who she is, you're turned off. She comes across as stupid or clueless or just out of it in some way. Her qualification to you will be weak. She may end up lying in order to keep your interest, without intentionally lying. She may even put up a false front because she doesn't want you to dig too deep into her, to see that she is that unstable. However she acts, it's normally not appealing to you when you pick her up.

Now, turn this around.

If you don't know who YOU are . . . take the above statements and apply them to yourself.
Do you see why girls aren't attracted?

In the case of her qualifying to you, flipping that around would be you showing that you are high value. That's what her qualification to you is all about, she's showing you that she is high value so that you will appreciate her.

Now do you see why we keep saying . . . find yourself? Know who you are.

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Alpha: "Come here, now."
AFC: "Would you mind coming here please, if it's not too much trouble?"

You have one shot, and it's in the first 3 seconds.
Make her qualify herself to YOU.

Don't back down from the girl. CHALLENGE her!
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PostSubject: Re: Finding Yourself   Sun May 10, 2009 12:45 am

One thing that I feel is that in most cases self discovery is frightening and unflinching. What you may discover about yourself maybe something that totally skews your perception of yourself. That to me is one of the main reasons some guys choose to just surface dwell when interacting with the opposite sex.
Nevertheless, they are selling themselves short as well as the young ladies that they are interacting with.

Personally, venusian arts wasn't my way to self discovery. I have a strong sense of who I am as a human being, and the venusian arts has only enhanced this. Many guys who come into the venusian arts didn't have the advantage I have so they struggle with the process of progressive change. In order to fully become the guy you want to be, you first have to imagine yourself as that person. Peace,lvoe and succe SS
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