- PUA to be wrote:
- yeh thats exactly what i did i kinda said like what the hell how do you communicate with people then.. She made a joke saying i write leters then shes like im just kidding i use the cell phone duhh then she also said shes always busy with work 24/7 she never has the time to really talk to anyone... what stage would you say i am in now? comfort? I was thinkin of asking her where she works.. good idea?
Unless you have told some DHV stories to her then you are in attraction. The next step would be to message her a few DHV stories to flip her attraction switches. Something as simple as ..."Oh that reminds me of the time that...." then insert your story. Until those attraction switches are flipped via DHV stories you are still in attraction phase. If that is already done, and you have expressed interested back in your target, then you would be in comfort.
Remember Attraction is basically:
A1- Open
A2 - Female to Male attraction. Tell DHV stories about yourself, and slightly neg your target if needed. Convey a non-needy attitude. Look for Indicators of Interest.
A3- After receiving at least 3 IOIs then you move to her talking about herself and then you expressing interest back on what she says.
C1 - Comfort - Building Rapport