JSmooth PUG
Number of posts : 1530 Age : 42 Location : Nashville, TN Reputation : 0 Registration date : 2008-03-17
| Subject: Benefits to Sarging Alone!!! Thu Apr 03, 2008 8:08 pm | |
| Guys, I first want to clarify that I enjoy meeting new wings and going out, however, there are great benefits to sarging alone.
Most of the people starting out are not on the same level. Even when I first joined the community and met a good wing who was just starting to read "The Game" and "Mystery Method" we were on different levels because we've each had different life experiences. He was 21 and a virgin and I was 25 and divorced.
Remember gentleman this is basically for when you first start going out, this is not a Mastery Level recommendation, but should be considered.
Common problems I see when sarging with others:
-You are ready to follow the 3 second rule and open sets, and they are still standing next to the wall fighting AA, and approaching very few sets.
-You are on different skill levels.
-You're mood for the evening is different. One is pumped up and the other is more interested in hanging out than meeting women.
Benefits to Sarging with others:
-Depending on experience, you can use the other person as a wing
-You have someone to encourage you, and keep your head straight
-You also have someone to watch when you're running sets to point out errors like bodylanguage and watch the overall appearance of the group.
-It's sometimes easier to do things with others.
-You are seen with others when you enter a venue.
Benefits to Sarging Alone
-You have no else to blame for your success or failure.
-You tend to learn more, and learn faster.
-You roll from set to set and build social proof with women seeing you talking to multiple types of sets.
-You don't have to worry about your wing making a mistake when you are making your own.
-You don't have to motivate anyone else to sarge only yourself.
-You don't feel the need to check in with the other person. | |
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