I may be easy, but I'm not sleazy

'I may be easy, but I'm not sleazy'

Last
night I was working the bar, and we had a slow night so me and my
fellow bartender, a sick natural pickup artist and a great guy, got
talking. I reviewed my latest experiences after returning to the pickup
scene and we got to discussing our recent adventures in the field, and
how women perceive us.

Now, we're pretty similar when it comes
to personality, we're both into cocky/funny and high self esteem. He's
more Alphadog in his approach, while I am more sleek. But we came
across one single thing that seemed to define us both.

We're easy.

Now,
by easy I don't mean in the traditional sense that women are sometimes
called easy. What I mean is that we like to sleep around. We're
he-sluts and we don't mind. What we do mind is the labeling.

Now,
to label is human. We do it, to define our world. But what labels you
use defines YOU. I don't mind being called a womanizer, or a hustler.
I'll shrug if someone calls me a slut, I guess by their distinction I
may be. But the fact that neither of us actually care what other
people, or other women think really defines us.

We both agreed
that the only way to handle a woman's shit test, e.g. 'I've heard you
sleep around' is just to shrug or nod and continue. There's no need to
comment on that, It's a statement, often true. And It's what we like to
do. I like to sleep around, but we also both agreed on one thing. We
hate being demonized for it.

What I mean, is some girls will
talk shit about us. We're pricks or assholes, we treat women badly or
hurt them. We draw the line at shrugging there.

These are girls
we never even slept with, or picked up. In fact, we barely know these
girls. And it brought us to a common doctrine, that I learned from
Eric(Mystery) and my friend learned on his own. Leave them better than
you found them., e.g. never hurt a woman or deliberately trick her into
anything. You don't need to tell the whole truth, but you should not
lie to her face.

It hurt us that women spoke about us that way.
I can count all the women I've slept with and I still can call them all
up and meet them for a beer and chat. I was honest with them all, and
they expected nothing more of me. They will talk about me to their
friends and share good stories.

This is what defines me, and
should define everyone who is 'easy' out there in the field, if you are
looking to have fun, don't lead them on with lies, don't trick or fool.
Be yourself, be the pickup artist you are and make sure the girl knows
that you two WILL have a good time, and you will NEVER hurt her.

I don't know about you, but the next time someone tells a girl I'm no good, she will get this speech.

Here, here! I'm with you on this. Leave them better than you found them, if at all possible.

Protect yourself while treating women with respect, a bad rumor will kill your chances in small circles or small towns