A Private Investigator

How would you guys feel if a girl you'd been seeing suddenly had a P.I. track you?

I'd wonder where she got the money to waste on someone stalking you..
My emotions would be a mix between excites, disturbed, but not too unusual..

I have this growing interest of male/female relationship psychology so i have quite the library to examine through all the wild lengths people will go to see if their husbands, wives, bfs, or gf's aren't being faithful to them. Hiring a private investigator was recommended :p

Why not fight back? Hire mr muiagi from karate kid..then again, if you have a hole in your wallet like myself, better settle for the beverly hills ninja.

I can understand if its a marriage with a lot at stake. But for petes sakes what is her reason? paranoia?

Depends on why she hired the PI...if the conditions warranted such activity i may not like it but id understand it...if conditions were not such to make such a thing understandable then id probably feel creeped out.

This is where honesty with yourself is important, because if you did something, somethign transpired between the to of you, or there is some legal matter between the two of you that warrants this...then you basically fight back in a legal sense either by hiring your own PI or Lawyer, or by simply not giving them anything to find.

However if you can honestly say nothing has warranted such activity on her part then id simply call the police and report her for stalking you.

Diamond, love the avatar. I actually know almost as much about her as what a P.I. would tell me anyway. Hell, I know down to the point of the one night she had sex with another guy. Knew she was doing it, when, and where. Went to see her face to face afterwards (when she called me after the fact because she felt guilty) and confronted her about it. I know who the act was with, basically how long they lasted, what he drives, etc. etc. I know a lot of people and have contacts, lol. I probably could find out more detailed info about certain areas by hiring a P.I. but I don't see the need.

Meg, her reason is what I'm trying to understand. This is one girl who's mindset is . . . confusing to say the least. I have figured out this much. Her daily life is a lie. I know that probably doesn't make much sense, but to get into the details, you would see what I'm saying. However, her hiring a P.I. to follow me . . . that just completely threw me for a loop.

Ka, I actually have thought about hiring my own P.I., but as I said to Diamond, I figure it's pointless to. She actually has created quite a mess that I'm cleaning up at the moment, but I don't think legal action on my part would make anything better, to be honest. I think it would create more of a hassle that I don't need to deal with. I've never taken any money from her nor asked her for money. She has cost ME money, but I'm not worried about that. As far as actions on my part that I'd want to keep secret, not really anything. I mean, she knows what I do, so that's not a secret. She knows I hang out with other girls and other guys so that's no secret. She normally knew who they were. She knows I'm busy a lot. Basically, she knows my life.

Hell, my ex-wives never hired a P.I. on me, lol.

My initial answer without scrolling down. I am in love with the idea. I think it would be fun trying to shake a p.i. To find out why LA asked a question like that I will read further. peace,lvoe and succe SS