Give her the gift of missing you...

One of the main things in most of the books I've read revolves
around you not getting too "clingy" with the person of your desires.

It's funny what you figure out... but don't really put a finger on
when you do. This is one of the things I figured out pretty early
on...

Look, a person has to wonder why you are calling them all of the
time... why you are always trying to be with them.

Do you have anything better to do?

If not, it's psycho city, my friend.

I have to confess, most people understand that almost all
relationships end at some point. So, if this is the case, people
also want to know that if it DOES end... that you aren't going to go
crazy on them.

Weird, huh? You haven't even gotten started and they are already
thinking of the end.

Uh... not really, ha, ha.

They only start thinking of the end when you start smothering them...
then these thoughts start to come into play.

Remember, self control is an extremely sexy quality... don't EVER let
that go... EVER!

Okay, so we've discussed the BAD reasons for being on top of
someone... let's talk about the GOOD reasons on why you shouldn't
smother people.

Numero Uno -- When people don't see you for a while... your mystery
and intrigue grow to that person. Curiosity is a GOOD thing. Your
value grows. People don't take you for granted. Remember, when
people see you all of the time ... you become COMMON.

Numero Two -- People's imaginations are CRAZY. If they like you... or
you do some of the things I'll talk about on this blog to increase
attraction... they'll start to wonder WHY you aren't calling... if
you're seeing someone else... do you like them... etc... Of course,
coupling this fact with "When To Shut Your Mouth" brings a very
satisfactory result. You WANT people thinking about you as much
as possible. This increases sexual tension.

Numero Three -- People respect you and your TIME more. You'll see
less flaky behavior because, quite frankly, these people know that
this might be the only time this week... or ever for that matter...
that you'll be able to hang out. Not only that, but the sense of
urgency is increased and it becomes much easier to escalate to the
physical once you have a person thinking that there is a huge
possibility that they might not see you for a week or more.

The basis behind this whole scenario is: make her think about you...
if she's not thinking about YOU... she's probably thinking about
someone else.

Get in her head... create some emotional responses... and start some
FIRE.

A quote:

A man said to a Dervish: "Why do I not see you more often?" The
Dervish replied, "Because the words 'Why have you not been to see
me?' are sweeter to my ear than the words 'Why have you come again?'"

-Mulla Jami, quoted in Idries Shah's Caravan of Dreams, 1968

And if you don't think that's enough...

After advising constant feints at withdrawal from one's lover,
Ninon de Lenclos wrote:

"Love never dies of starvation, but often of indigestion"

-from The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene

Oh, and by the way, I know my Spanish sucks... lol

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blog at:

http://www.angeleyesdevilsmile.com

Until next time...

Angel Eyes

p.s. Don't forget about picking up your copy of Explode Your
Influence... THE Social Proof Manifesto... it's only 7 bucks...
but worth a whole lot more.