Open or get Opened, Story + Theory

Good day,

3 days ago, i started with my new job, the mail man
Nothing special about you think.
You thought wrong.

Yesterday i brought my mail in my district.
I said like Hi to everybody and everybody was saying Hi back ! in a very friendly way.
I even made conversations with some people. awesome shit. good for my conversational skills !
Conclusion: Everybody likes the mail man !

After 9 hours of work i was tired.
I didn't open up on people anymore, but then it backfired !

PEOPLE STARTED TALKING TO ME !
WITH ALL THEIR STORIES AND GOOD TIMES !
I WAS LIKE WTF ! THIS NEVER OCCURED FOR ME !
(caps = nice )

even 8,5 hb started talking to me.
People drag me out of my tired state.

Formula:
Comfortable State + Social being = Open in a friendly Way !
(People will feel if your comfortable or not, so figure it out before you go out )

Comfortable State + Tired State / Social Being = People open up on you !

Isn't this strange?
People ever have this happened?

haha..my dad was the mailman once.
although he was (kinda) socially akward, he always told and heard great stories.
People loved it then. Now he works in an office..that's all I know of him.

Key lesson: Mailman = Cool guy

Also, it's a job, so people probably don't expect him to be flirting during the delivery route.
(cus he's such a harmless man :p)

Yo, I like this theory and the mailman is swell guy. I recall our mailman back in LA, such a swell guy. In that comfortable state and being social, you have unlocked your keys to advancement. pEace,lvoe and Succe SS

Cndos wrote:

(People will feel if your comfortable or not, so figure it out before you go out )

EXACTLY.

Good job man.