randy1random Tripp's Vault Member
Number of posts : 414 Age : 38 Location : Bath, England Reputation : 3 Registration date : 2008-08-04
| Subject: Language barrier. Sat Mar 07, 2009 8:35 pm | |
| Met another girl from tagged yesterday. Very very beautiful African girl. We had a meal at Nando's and then watched the unborn. She payed for the meal and pop-corn and I payed for the movie. I know meal and movies is pretty afc but it's still a good way to get to know someone. She found me attractive but the conversation was pretty mediocre because of the language barrier as English is her third language and she's only been over her 6 months.
Does anyone have any tips to deal with this sort of situation? | |
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Vedere mPUA Apprentice
Number of posts : 345 Age : 36 Location : Belgium Reputation : 0 Registration date : 2008-03-25
| Subject: Re: Language barrier. Sat Mar 07, 2009 11:02 pm | |
| I'll give my 2 cents again, feel free to discuss with me.
I don't think you can blame language barriers mediocre conversations. Actually, you can, but you cannot blame them for mediocre interactions. Facial expressions, kino, eye-contact, games...
En plus, it is her problem that she doesn't speak the language. Not yours. | |
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randy1random Tripp's Vault Member
Number of posts : 414 Age : 38 Location : Bath, England Reputation : 3 Registration date : 2008-08-04
| Subject: Re: Language barrier. Mon Mar 09, 2009 3:12 am | |
| It appears I did well enough. We've got another date organised but if she doesn't bring more passion to the interaction then I'm gonna move on. | |
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Fortunehooks1 Tripp's Vault Member
Number of posts : 849 Age : 42 Location : USA Fort Worth, Texas Reputation : 1 Registration date : 2008-03-24
| Subject: Re: Language barrier. Tue Mar 10, 2009 4:00 am | |
| Whoa, this is a tough one. I understand the restrictions my man, but I do think that the facial expressions have universal appeal. For instance, I attend a university where the girls I usually go for, has english as a second language. So, some of things I say are misunderstood. I counter that fact, by explaining to them what I mean, and slapping their shoulders, arms, and hands in playful manner. You have to keep the vibe, and know that their vibe will catch up to yours. peace,lvoe and succe SS | |
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Action_Jackson VIP
Number of posts : 30 Age : 42 Location : Hollywood, CA Reputation : 0 Registration date : 2008-09-20
| Subject: Re: Language barrier. Thu Mar 19, 2009 9:43 pm | |
| Lots and lots of kino! You can communicate everything through touching. It's like in that movie Hitch...Will Smith is correct when he talks about putting your hand on her back..."too high says you just want to be friends, too low says you just want some ass." Girls are super aware of that stuff. | |
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AltruisticAssassin rAFC
Number of posts : 46 Age : 40 Location : Cleveland Reputation : 0 Registration date : 2009-06-17
| Subject: Re: Language barrier. Thu Jun 18, 2009 3:54 am | |
| Read a few books on body language [preferably while you're in a public area] to become more alert. Then throw in a little kino into it. The thing that works best for me is lightly brushing thier hand, as I'm describing whatever I pulled out my ass that involves a light brush, once and then removing my finger [last time I was talking about marking cards and showing how to make a mark with your nail by demonstrating on her hand]. | |
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