L.A. Tripp Admin
Number of posts : 4766 Age : 51 Location : Evansville, IN Reputation : 19 Registration date : 2008-03-14
| Subject: Destroy the competition with your social prowess Thu Nov 20, 2008 10:46 pm | |
| This one email will change the way you think about how you run your social circle...
... so pay attention.
Fact: your social status is directly related to the amount of people that YOU can bring together at any one time.
Fact: over any other "quality" that you can develop, your social status can do more for you than either money or looks.
Look... it's true that it's not what you know, but WHO you know that matters.
So... do you want to know my number one secret to improving your social life?
It's quite simple:
MEET MORE PEOPLE
Of course, simple doesn't necessarily mean EASY.
You can't confuse the two... because they aren't interchangeable.
Okay, now that we've got that out of the way... let me tell you about the special manuscript that I put together that outlines my #1 way of meeting the most important people... the "hubs"... at breakneck speed.
This system allowed me to walk into any town and totally dominate the social scene within two months...
... no joke.
It's called "Explode Your Influence".
More on this later.
Back to what we were talking about.
We were talking about how to meet more people...
Here's the deal: most people are AFRAID to meet other people... even though they are open to the possibility. What this means is that YOU have to initiate everything.
Guess what, though.
If you're meeting people all of the time, other people will want to know who you are... and want to get to know you.
Secret #1 - The person that has the ability to introduce people to other people is a valuable asset to ANY social circle.
An example:
Have you ever had a friend that knows how to talk to women... or rather... knows how to NOT GET SHUT DOWN.
I think we all know of a person like this. So what happens when this person starts a conversation with a set of women...
... everyone else tries to eventually join in.
Therefore, if no one in the group knows how to properly talk to women... this guy will always be "in demand" in the group.
Secret #2 - Perception is reality. You don't have to know everyone at a party or bar... you just have to LOOK LIKE YOU DO.
This is pretty simple.
If you're introducing yourself to people where you are... and then introducing those people to other people that you've met that night... no one really knows that you just met everyone there THAT NIGHT.
Because you look like you own the place.
Secret #3 - Always make sure to talk to the HOTTEST WOMAN at the bar FIRST! Look, it doesn't even matter if you pick her up or just make a little small talk... because your whole point is to make sure that you are SEEN WITH HER.
Naturally, make sure that she looks like she's at least enjoying the brief conversation...
Never start at "the bottom" to get warmed up.
It sucks to get shut down by a bottom feeder... especially if everyone sees it. Your confidence takes a huge hit.
On the contrary, if you get shut down by the hottest one... WHO CARES... she's the hottest woman in the bar.
Secret #4 - Quit getting hung up on the outcomes. Just meet people to meet people and see where everything goes. You don't know enough about that person to make any viable judgments on what to expect. . So expect nothing.
Toney, there's much, much more where this comes from.
If you'd like to discover my Power Networking strategies and how they can massively expand your social proof and prowess, make sure to grab my "Explode Your Influence" manuscript. Until next time,
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