Friends or enemies ;)

If you didnt read my FR 23 there is a girl who I got her email and want to either take her on a date or befriend her. I say befriend her because she is new to sydney and all her friends so far are also German. She is going to live in Australia for a year and has her first job shift on tuesday, a trial shift.

I only have her email as she doesnt have facebook, but I want to convey somehow the message above. I think she may be keen for fun but we will see when I take her on a date.

So the question is; should I allude to the fact that we could be friends or should I try to take her out and see what happens? Any tips other than remind her of the awesome time we had? Is there a generic thing that one should include in an email.

As you can tell I dont do much online stuff. My attempts at facebook fun fizzle fast. Thanks for any suggestions in advance

Dude, I'm sure you'll do just fine

I think you could figure out this response yourself but I'd just ask her about her work in Australia, make a joke about it and tell her it'd be fun to hang out with her sometime.

Yeah I think I just wanted somone else to tell me what to do in this situation. In the end I wrote her this and we will see about a response..

Quote :

Just a quick hello and good luck. I hope Tuesday's job goes well. If so then I will come to your work and you can wrap my presents ;-)
Im a bit unhappy I didnt spend more time with you, but I got a message from a friend that she drank too much and I had to help.
You seemed like a cool girl last night, maybe we can meet and play some more cool games... if you behave.

bis später, Aussie Matt

Think it sounds good and should get a reply

Why place her in a box until you know her better.

You may elude to being "just friends" and she could turn out to be the love of your life.

Go out with no expectations or assumptions, just have fun and be you. When you know her better then you can either escalate and date her, make it clear your not an exclusive dater, or make it clear you are only interested in being friends. Thats not a step you are at yet.

You can bust her balls i nthe email, make a crack at her for not having a facebook profile...tell her she should set one up its soo much better then plain email...right?

Im sure you'll do fine just dont over think it, have a fun time, show her the real you...and go from there.