Girl I Like.. Still Dating

So I've known this girl for a couple of months now.
She knows about most things PUA..I've clued her in.
She's quite a few years older than me..as I just
finished high-school, she's finished her University years.

Now you guys are like my closest buddies to talk to when it comes to Dating/Relationship
Advice, so i'd be pleased to have you all chip in. :p

She's passed off dates for me before, but she's going on them to get more experience.
It sounds harmless to me, but since I want to turn it into something closer should I say
something on that, or should I use her dating to my advantage somehow?

Diamond wrote:

She's passed off dates for me before, but she's going on them to get more experience. It sounds harmless to me, but since I want to turn it into something closer should I say
something on that, or should I use her dating to my advantage somehow?

I can't say I understand what you mean here man. She's skipping dates? She's going on dates with other guys because she wants more life/relationship experience? You guys are dating, but not exclusively? You'd like to be exclusive? You'd like to use the open relationship to enrich your life more? Too many possibilities to write them all out.

I'm with Rye on this. You need to explain this a bit more so we know what you are actually seeking.

It sounds to me like you two are strictly friends at this point and that she is dating other guys, but has blown off a few dates to hang out with you, and now you are wanting to be in an exclusive relationship with her . . . but again, I don't know for sure without clarification.

Snap! Yeah, you got it Tripp. You could pretty much replace my grandma with
your message reading skills.. I could send her a letter saying jack-squat and
she'd still manage to pull some meaning from it.

It seems like I just passed my Vague Test with flying colours. :p

Like Rye Lee mentioned, she's probably dating with other guys because she wants more life/relationship experience.

This same thing happened with previous gf's of mine, but I'd like to know how to take advantage of the fact that she is dating more (if you've got any ideas) to turn it into an exclusive relationship.

Does that make it any easier to understand.

Diamond wrote:

Snap! Yeah, you got it Tripp. You could pretty much replace my grandma with
your message reading skills.. I could send her a letter saying jack-squat and
she'd still manage to pull some meaning from it.

It seems like I just passed my Vague Test with flying colours. :p

Like Rye Lee mentioned, she's probably dating with other guys because she wants more life/relationship experience.

This same thing happened with previous gf's of mine, but I'd like to know how to take advantage of the fact that she is dating more (if you've got any ideas) to turn it into an exclusive relationship.

Does that make it any easier to understand.

Well, there really isn't a "taking advantage of the fact that she's dating more" way to do that. That means she's looking for more options, to find the right one.

What you have to do is, as always, raise your personal value in her eyes. You know how to do that. That's the basics and that's what you have to start with. She has to realize that you are worth more than the other guys she's dating.