StyleLife's 5 Attraction Keys

Attraction Key #1: YOUR SMILE

Never underestimate the power of a smile. Smiling is a
classic social technique, no doubt...but it is still a
micro-method that we need to be reminded of. After all, we
aren't looking at our face most of the time, so we tend to
forget the default expression we are emitting. Remedy this
condition by installing a mirror facing you at your desk, or
another place where you spend a lot of time. Look into the
mirror often and upgrade your expression.

Smile at yourself. It's not vain. It's social training.

I know sometimes life can get you down. For example, when
watching the nightly news, the number of stories of people
hurting people far outweighs the number of stories of people
helping people. What does that do to your psyche? Your
default state of mind? Your facial expressions? It brings you
down.

It's up to us to consciously seek out and choose positive,
inspiring, and uplifting messages, mentors, and media.
It's up to us to bring smiles into our relationships with
others.

A great smile emits from your eyes, not your mouth. The
showing of teeth with dead looking eyes would be more of a
grimace than a smile. I'll never forget one time I was in Los
Angeles and learned why they call it "Tinsel Town". My
waitress smiled at me, but her eyes were a vacant haze. It
was forced. She was surely not thinking truly pleasant
thoughts. Tinsel may be pretty at first, but it is
inauthentic, and easily detectable as fake. Take the time to
build a pleasant state of mind required to transmit warm,
sincere smiles.


Attraction Key #2: YOUR LAUGH

Laughter is the release of emotional tension. It's a great
way to manage the emotional ups and downs that sometimes
occur in life. If you and your partner are laughing together,
you will be much more likely to want to see each other again.

* Generate laughter by saying and doing funny things.

* Learn and tell jokes, riddles, and fun games.

* Fine tune your funny bone by listening to professional
stand-up comedians. It's fine to enjoy the performance, but
you also need to be listening with a new set of ears now.
Listen with your learning mind to model the comedian's
expressions, their word choice, their vocal intonations,
their facial expressions and hand gestures.

* Be able to perform some short interpretations of your
favorite stand-up comedy skits. If you are a professional
comedian yourself, it's improper to steal other people's
material, but if you are simply on a date, it's fair game,
and recommended.


Attraction Key #3: YOUR BANTER

Banter is playful teasing. It's a funny way of making
personal jokes with your partner. Sometimes banter can even
be potentially offensive, as you experiment with light
hearted ridicule and mocking of your partner. As with most
ventures, "No risk, no reward."

Banter shows that you are not boring and you are willing to
extend outside your comfort zone of politeness. It tests the
limits of propriety with amusing role play, sometimes even
imitating your partner, by exaggerating their mannerisms.

Banter is not serious; it injects a mood of silly levity into
your interaction. If you have a romantic interest in your
partner, you can sprinkle your banter with sensual innuendo.
If your partner returns your banter with witty quips of her
own, this is a good sign, keep the mood light and happy and
play along.


Attraction Key #4: YOUR ENTERTAINMENT

Who is she going to call when she wants to have fun? When
she is bored? When nothing else satisfies her? If you want
her to call you, combine the aspects of smiling, laughing,
and banter, and then mix in some customized activities that
you and your partner enjoy together, you can reach a level
where you are entertaining each other to mutual satisfaction.

Different people are entertained by different activities, and
after some quality time together, you will need to learn
about your partner to see what entertains them best. Some
options include:

- Music concerts. Are you both entertained by the same kind
of music?

- Movies and theatres. Are you both entertained by the same
genre of film?

- Art museums and galleries. Are you both entertained by the
same kind of fine arts?

Explore these areas of common interest and turn them into fun
and exciting adventures and bonding experiences. If the two
of you are enjoying some of your favorite things, and
enjoying the company of each other, each night you are
together will definitely be a night to remember.


Attraction Key #5: YOUR SHARED EXPERIENCES

The highest level of attraction is known as the peak
experience. Shared exhilaration will burn a neural pathway
that associates you with good times in her mind. Take her
breath away. Find out what her thrill is and enjoy it
together. Share a new thrill she has never had before. For
example, give her a ride on the back of your motorcycle. Go
parachuting together. Go surfing, snowboarding, or
rollerblading.

With the keys Attraction, Rapport, and Romance on your Dating
Key-Chain, you will be able to win her heart, mind, body and
soul.

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