Turn Up The Heat

Don't be afraid to turn up the heat with the girls you pick up. I picked up a girl a couple of weeks ago and had purposely left things fairly cool for the past couple of weeks because of other things going on. Tonight, however, I purposely turned the heat up. I got her texting all night until she got off work, then she called me right away when she left work, talking to me while she drove home and staying on with me for about an hour after she got home.

Guys, this is part of pushing boundaries. You HAVE to be willing to turn up the heat. Take the convo's sexual. Change the direction of the convo's before the subject gets stale. Don't tell her everything about you up front, just enough to keep her interested.

In other words, turn things up, light her fire in her mind. Get her turned onto you and into you. Pick up steam with the new girls you pick up. Take things to the next level with each girl that you're interested in. Don't be afraid to do that.

And don't take the shit tests from them when you ARE turning up the heat. This girl told me tonight that she doesn't like arrogance, and is worried about over confidence in a guy. Hehe. And I come across as very confident, which she picked up on IMMEDIATELY. Yet, she still called me immediately after clocking out and stayed on with me, until I told her I need to go.

So, guys, pick up steam with each new girl, push the boundaries, and if you do happen to push too far, back up just a bit, but not for long. You still have to push the line. Pick up steam and get your momentum going.

Thank you for posting this! You have to always be testing her boundaries, pushing her buttons or whatever you want to call it. Women do it to men all the time to. You have to push the limits. Let's say for example you meet a girl who likes to makeout with a guy typically when she first meets him. You trying to do the "right" thing decide that a kiss close is good. She's going to see you as a guy who didn't test her, and think of you as being boring. Although, if you're the guy who makes out with her, and tries for a little more....she might stop you but you weren't the boring "nice" guy.

You'll be amazed guys when you keep pushing the limits with these ladies. You'll find more women are willing to do these we didn't think they would have at the time.

Great point in your addition man.