You're the $*!@

Subject: You're the $*!@ Fri Mar 28, 2008 2:17 am

That's got to be your basic attitude. But, not one of arrogance, rather one of confidence. There IS a difference between the two.

Arrogance: offensive display of superiority or self-importance; overbearing pride.

Confidence: belief in oneself and one's powers or abilities; self-confidence; self-reliance; assurance: His lack of confidence defeated him.

So, you've got to be confident that you're the man. This is an inner game issue. Which is also the core of your game overall, including your outer game. It's something that you can literally feel within yourself. The confidence, the comfort, of knowing who you really are, and being OK with that.

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RIght on Tripp, I agree.

WOmen actually notice these traits among men. When we see a guy being arrogant, it is distasteful for a woman to interact with him because it's not attractive at all. If we meet a man that has confidence and that shows that he is comfortable with himself, unlike arrogance it shows incongruency and insecurity which leads to other unattractive traits.

Subject: Re: You're the $*!@ Sun Mar 30, 2008 7:55 pm

Very true Paramour

Subject: Re: You're the $*!@ Sun Mar 30, 2008 8:36 pm

L.A. Tripp wrote:: That's got to be your basic attitude. But, not one of arrogance, rather one of confidence. There IS a difference between the two.

Arrogance: offensive display of superiority or self-importance; overbearing pride.

Confidence: belief in oneself and one's powers or abilities; self-confidence; self-reliance; assurance: His lack of confidence defeated him.

So, you've got to be confident that you're the man. This is an inner game issue. Which is also the core of your game overall, including your outer game. It's something that you can literally feel within yourself. The confidence, the comfort, of knowing who you really are, and being OK with that.

You are absolutely right. Friday night there was a two set that approached me and JoeBazooka. At some point during the brief conversation they were like, "We are the shit!" I said, "No that's impossible because we are.." Then we both used disinterested body language about the same time. The girls basically kino'd us both instantly at that point, trying to get the attention back. Smile

When you are confident, and comfortable with who you are, PUA gets so much easier.

Subject: Re: You're the $*!@ Mon Mar 31, 2008 3:40 am

Tripp you are correct my man. I admit, that sometimes my daily attitude shoots right through the roof, and kisses arrogance like a working girl and a governor. Mostly, I am able to convey my confidence by posture and body languages.

Subject: Re: You're the $*!@ Mon Mar 31, 2008 10:41 am

I know inner came and confidence is important but i think you still need to know what to say to a girl to be able to close the set other wise you can bore them to death... sadly i can say i have been in that situation....

Subject: Re: You're the $*!@ Mon Mar 31, 2008 10:50 am

having this attitude really works!

Subject: Re: You're the $*!@ Mon Mar 31, 2008 12:31 pm

PUA to be wrote:: I know inner came and confidence is important but i think you still need to know what to say to a girl to be able to close the set other wise you can bore them to death... sadly i can say i have been in that situation....

Yeah, if you don't escalate, you might as well just eject. You HAVE to escalate to keep things moving and keep them interesting.

Subject: Re: You're the $*!@ Wed Apr 02, 2008 8:55 am

I agree with this, and ive found that myself being a gymnast and fellow gymnast seem to have that natural aura of confidence in ourselves that the girl at our gyms love. I dont think ive met a single gymnast who was not confident in himself...guess you kind of have to be to do what we do