HBTextbook Pt. 1 Myspace to f-close

Field Report: Brock - "HBTextbook" (Part 1 of 2)
I named this one HBTextbook because
basically it was an open and shut case.
Completely textbook. It felt very
natural for having been out of the game
for a while working on other projects.
Its amazing how fast complex skills like
fucking women come back when you're out
of practice.

So I met this girl on Myspace, she lives
in the nearby town of Savannah, which is
about an hour drive from me. Right now
I’m living and relaxing in a beach town,
but there is virtually no nightlife and
I have to drive at minimum an hour to
party. Ce La Vie. Losers make $*!@. And
Losers make work. But Winners make $*!@
work.

I’m going to actually include the
myspace messages in here so you can see
the play by play action of how it went
down, along with my commentary of what I
was thinking and why I played it the way
I did.


So I send my bonerfied best myspace
message

---------- Original Message ------------
From: Brock
Subject: You're cute...


But you're not THAT cute Oh HI, I
guess I should introduce myself. I'm
Brock and I just moved down here. And
again, you're semi-cute. I'm sorta
digging the cuteness, but do you have a
brain to match? Charisma is the real
root of attraction.
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and she responds as expected to my
cocky/funny attitude.


---------- Original Message ------------
From: HBTextbook


to answer that... yes!
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I know she’s interested by her smile,
but she’s not investing a lot in the
conversation. That’s fine, it’s still
early. I know I need to pique her
curiosity a bit more and start DHVing
and her interest will follow. So I stack
forward by getting her opinion on
attraction: James Bond or Indiana Jones
(Yes gentlemen, i STILL use this).



---------- Original Message ------------
From: Brock


Good, I love a girl with a big brain.
Its by far the sexiest feature a woman
can have.

So big-brain HBTextbook, tell me. Which
type of man is more attractive to you as
a woman: James Bond or Indiana Jones?

I do hope you're into movies
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She responds with an answer, an IOI, and
a rapport seeking question "what do you
do here".



---------- Original Message ------------
From: HBTextbook


i would have to say james bond... it's
the mystery of the man that makes him
sexy.

what do you do here?
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I acknowledge her picking Bond (so her
input is not completely illusionary),
make an open ended cold read about her
likes based on the fact she chose Bond,
tell her its a secret and I can't answer
her question as to what I do (rapport
breaking), DHV, Tease her, and finally
ask her in response the same question
she asked me "And what exactly is it You
do again?".

---------- Original Message ------------
From: Brock


So you're a Bond girl. I bet you like
fast cars too.

I'm not at liberty to discuss my highly
controversial job with you at the moment
miss HBTextbook. Though much will be
revealed this fall on a popular TV
channel that you might watch.

I see that you're not quite 21 yet and
can't help but notice that blue solo cup
in your hand. You're not a bad girl are
you? You might be a bad influence on my
career. And what excatly is it You do
again?
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She responds to my teasing with a sexual
vibe (good), tells me about herself and
her background getting us into comfort,
and expresses disappointment that I
didn't reveal my hook so easily by
telling her about my job.

---------- Original Message ------------
From: HBTextbook


i am actually a good girl. but doesn't
everyone have a bad side to them from
time to time? i go to school to
become a Pharmacist and i work in a
Pharmacy right now as a technician.
i am definitely a bond girl who likes
fast cars. i grew up with a dad who
loved his toys... corvettes,
motorcycles, ect.
That's fine if you can't discuss your
job with me, but just to let you know, i
am great with keeping secrets. i rarely
watch tv, so i miss you on TV. sorry...

Talk to you later,
HBTextbook
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There were no real questions in her
response (other than a rhetorical one)
so I pickup the stick and lead like the
fucking alpha man I am. I establish a
commonality (again based on the fact she
picked Bond), start elaborating on my
own identity to her, DHV, DHV, attempt
to time-bridge next time I'm in the area
(specifically focusing on her comfort,
since I'm going for the time-bridge so
fast), go for the #, express interest,
smile, send.

---------- Original Message ------------
From: Brock


Oh that's cool. I love to drive fast
cars too. I have quite a few crazy
stories involving them. My dad used to
be a race-car driver and I would to race
his car on the test track on the
off-days. Talk about adrenaline rushes!

So hey, I'm looking at my schedule here.
Tonight I'm driving up to Charleston to
hang out with one of my business
partners, and then next weekend I have a
trip to Vegas scheduled (I love to
travel). But, I'm thinking about making
a trip down to Savannah during the early
part of this coming week to hang out
with one of my boys. You should tag
along and we can see if we hit it off.
Bring a friend too if it'd make you feel
more comfortable.

If you're interested, We can exchange
numbers and make something happen
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She responds (3 days later -- and oh on
a side note I make sure each of these
beginning messages I'm sending her has
at minimum 1 day between them. Once
things get more intense and I go for the
close we message each other multiple
times in a single day) with a
disappointingly lame message to me. She
agrees open-endedly to a meetup,
although gives no # and only a lame line
"do you come here often?" This is her
female way of getting information to
work out logistics, but still this is
the same exact line guys were using in
the 1960's to bang freedom fighting
braless babes.

---------- Original Message ------------
From: HBTextbook


yeah... definitely let me know if you're
going to be in savannah. do you come
here often?
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I respond back, answering her logistics
question. I DHV, and then hit her back
with my own logistics, as to what her
schedule is like, so I can give her more
specifics on a meetup. You have to
realize sometimes if your time-bridges
are TOO open-ended girls won't agree to
them. Have specifics. "We're going to
the grocery store to shop for linguine
noodles at 9pm. I'll pick you up in my
car from your place, bring a friend". So
I give her a specific night: Wednesday.
I then give her my number as part of my
strong frame we're going to exchange
numbers push and tell her to "Ask for
Bond"


---------- Original Message ------------
From: Brock


About once a week. Depending on my
schedule I might make it down this
Wednesday night before I head out to the
city of sin. Whats your schedule like?

I'm 555-555-5555, Ask for Bond.
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She eats it up in her response to me and
actually makes kind of a poor move on
her part. I know I have the upper hand
now, and honestly at this point I
already knew the game was over. Good
game, your vagina is mine. 5 Myspace
messages back and forth and I'm
confident of the F-close. All I have to
do now is play solid game and don't @*#$
it up. She explains her schedule to me,
blah blah, saying if I beg she might go
out with me Wednesday night. Still no #
from her on her part.


---------- Original Message ------------
From: HBTextbook


haha... do i seriously have to ask for
bond?

i think i'm laying low wednesday night
cuz i have to work early in the morning
thursday... but i think my brother, one
of my friends and i are going to watch a
movie. what are your plans wednesday
night? if you beg me long enough... i
may switch plans and go out instead.
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Haha, yeah right girl. I give her a
money speech on why I'm way more fun
than going and seeing the next Harry
Potter movie. I give her 5 statements, 3
of which I subcommunicate massive DHVs,
the 4th I IOI her, and the 5th
Cocky/Funny. I then end with another
request at her number and some more C/F.


---------- Original Message ------------
From: Brock


I don't beg, but I can give you a
hundred reasons why hanging out with me
will be way more fun than laying low or
going to see the next Harry Potter
(which yes, I admit, I saw it).

1) Interesting people lead interesting
lives.
2) Confidence is sexy.
3) Attraction is not a choice.
4) You know Savannah better than me and
can be my tour guide!
5) Yes You have to ask for Bond!

Whats your number? I can call you
tommorow and give you the other 95
reasons then, Haha
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She responds back with a justification
(mostly to herself, but to me as well)
why she's giving me her number. She does
a bit of C/F back at me, mirroring my
frame that she is accepting now, lets me
know when is good to call, and finally
gives it to me.

---------- Original Message ------------
From: HBTextbook

you'll lucky you mentioned the Harry
Potter movie.. cuz that's what we're
going to see. and you can ask for
Barbie, but i'm going to tell you that
you have the wrong number.

555-555-5555 call after 6pm
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I call her the next day and she doesn't
answer, which is pretty common when you
call someone on the cell and your number
isn't stored.

(Btw as a side note, something I do
ALWAYS now is whenever someone sends me
their number over email or the internet,
whether they are a business partner,
potential FB, whoever, I store it in my
phone immediately. That way I can call
it later when I'm driving and may not
have access to it. If you do not have
this habit, cultivate it immediately.)

In any case I expected this and had a
good voicemail lined up. "Hey Barbie its
Bond, we need to talk. Call me at
555-555-5555."

Within 5 minutes she called back.

We talk for 15 minutes on the phone.
Long enough to up her Buying Temp a bit,
go into rapport, and then setup a
meeting. Setting up a meeting with
someone who you have only exchanged
messages with over the internet can be a
uncomfortable thing for a woman so you
want to make her feel safe. I focus more
on Comfort and less on BT/Attraction for
the first few phone conversation. Once
you get her in person, then comes the
time to work her Buying Temperature.

Oh there's something else. An important
factor that made this meet-up happen.
(...to be continued...)