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Juice PUG Apprentice
Number of posts : 944 Age : 40 Location : StPetersburg, Fla Reputation : 0 Registration date : 2008-03-17
| Subject: Serious subject about PUA'in Thu Mar 27, 2008 10:35 am | |
| Well, I learned 2nite that the PUA game as to work in different types of venues.. because I went to my first all african-american club 2nite. And I have to say that the vibe is different, the females seem to be up on theyre bitch/shield game as soon as they walk in. This post in better detail is in my FR ill be posting a little after this one but my question to you guys.
Does the PUA game fit or doesnt fit into certain racial dominated venues.. | |
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L.A. Tripp Admin
Number of posts : 4766 Age : 51 Location : Evansville, IN Reputation : 19 Registration date : 2008-03-14
| Subject: Re: Serious subject about PUA'in Thu Mar 27, 2008 11:47 am | |
| The core of it, the attraction switches apply EVERY WHERE. The veneer, the top layer, is different depending on the social climate or atmosphere, the feel of the place. But the core is the same. If you flip the main 4 attraction switches in any venue you are in, you will still achieve attraction. You just may have to go about it a different way. I know from my own experience, I've got a club here that is one side hip hop/urban, one side rock. The urban side is obviously more african american, but I've danced there and had the regulars on that side watching me and copying me, and had some girls on that side after me. So yes, it works, even there.
However, as you noticed, the vibe is indeed different and the bitch shields are bigger, but it does still work. | |
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Juice PUG Apprentice
Number of posts : 944 Age : 40 Location : StPetersburg, Fla Reputation : 0 Registration date : 2008-03-17
| Subject: Re: Serious subject about PUA'in Thu Mar 27, 2008 6:55 pm | |
| First time, Ive been to a urban hip hop club in such a long time, the vibe is different ..very uncomfortable for me and the taste in women is much more subpar then I like (White girls) a few wouldve got it last night but the venue was not my taste. | |
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L.A. Tripp Admin
Number of posts : 4766 Age : 51 Location : Evansville, IN Reputation : 19 Registration date : 2008-03-14
| Subject: Re: Serious subject about PUA'in Thu Mar 27, 2008 8:06 pm | |
| Well, you didn't know before you went. Now you do. So, you've learned about another venue. That's a plus anyway. | |
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Ka Tripp's Vault Member
Number of posts : 788 Age : 40 Location : Philly Reputation : 2 Registration date : 2008-03-17
| Subject: Re: Serious subject about PUA'in Thu Mar 27, 2008 9:36 pm | |
| Race plays a very minor if only surface change in how you game. However as Tripp said the underlying concepts dont change.
The thing ive found works with some minorities/cultures doesnt work with others (speaking in terms of sterotypes of course).
I live and always have lived in a very diverse area. Typically minorities like african mericans and latino's tend by upbringing to be more outgoing and confident. Alternately some asian's tend to be more quite and withheld.
Ive found that if you can go over the top with confidence and humor african american girls will love you, latino chicks will want to fight you, and youll flat out insult and make asian chicks uncomfortable.
A latino chick wants a bit less confidence and humor then an african american women, but the latino chick will need to be bombarded with false disqualifiers. African american and latino women seem to be subjected to sexual come-ons much more commonly then women of other cultures. The difference being that african american women typically like it and play along whereas latino women are the opposite and want you to prove beyond a doubt your not just around for sex.
As far as asian women go i dont have much advice. However everything im talking about is based of personal experience and sterotypes...there are of course girls from every culture who break the sterotypes. Its a matter of calibration.
Know the type of person, read the manorisms, and understand the underlying functions of the behaviors and you'll do fine. | |
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JSmooth PUG
Number of posts : 1530 Age : 42 Location : Nashville, TN Reputation : 0 Registration date : 2008-03-17
| Subject: Re: Serious subject about PUA'in Thu Mar 27, 2008 9:39 pm | |
| - Ka wrote:
- As far as asian women go i dont have much advice. However everything im talking about is based of personal experience and sterotypes...there are of course girls from every culture who break the sterotypes. Its a matter of calibration.
Know the type of person, read the manorisms, and understand the underlying functions of the behaviors and you'll do fine. WELL SAID!!! | |
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Juice PUG Apprentice
Number of posts : 944 Age : 40 Location : StPetersburg, Fla Reputation : 0 Registration date : 2008-03-17
| Subject: Re: Serious subject about PUA'in Fri Mar 28, 2008 10:53 pm | |
| Yeah, it was my first time experiencing something like that, the vibe was different so I had to approach the game differently. | |
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Fortunehooks1 Tripp's Vault Member
Number of posts : 849 Age : 42 Location : USA Fort Worth, Texas Reputation : 1 Registration date : 2008-03-24
| Subject: Re: Serious subject about PUA'in Sat Mar 29, 2008 12:51 am | |
| Juice you bring up a very important topic, my man. I learned that sistas adore humor, and a certain cool persona that comes natural to most, myself included. Some hispanic females do indeed need more IOD to really get them to open up, as Ka mentioned. Personally, I love all women, but I wasn't having the kind of success I wanted with all the women that I find attractive, so in my pursuit of a red-haired lady with emerald colored eyes, I decided I should diversify my game and become more well rounded with it, hence PUA mindset and tactics. I say Juice go and have a good time, no matter where you are. Peace | |
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