I need advice. I've hit it off really well with a cute girl from the office. She is a few years younger and we've been spending a lot of time together, but mostly at work type functions. She gives lots of IOI's and responds well to flirting, email / texting, etc...
BUT, I'm told (recently) she has a boyfriend.
I've never asked because I don't want to create a frame where:A. I know, B. I care-she is chasing me right?
She's never mentioned it, and had plenty of chances.
So here is my problem.
I don't want to be a slimeball, but she is right out of college, and this rumored bf might or might not still be in school. I feel like that is a time when a lot of people breakup anyway, so I think at a min, she is thinking about breaking things off with him.
Regardless, I want to ask her out, but ever since I heard about this bf, my head is messed up. She is acting the same, but I'm creating drama in my head.
I also don't want to make things weird. She is in a different division, so there are no ethical issues, but I don't need a cute little reminder of my failure running around my office all day if I happen to push too hard and creep her out.
Am I just barking up the wrong tree?