We've been talking about this mindset, and I thought I'd post a funny situation that happened the other day and only reinforces the effectiveness of this.
I came knocking on my pivots door after a long night on the town last weekend, my phone was dead and I was gonna take her up on the sofa offer I got earlier. It was almost 5 am.
She was not happy to see me to say the least, and let me in and found me a blanket and kinda pissy about it, I remember not feeling too bad, just shrugged and went to sleep
The morning after I left before she woke up and headed home, then I called her and apologized for waking her up in the middle of the night and she said this:
"You know, it's so frustrating to try and scold you or give you shit, because all you do is stand there and grin, you don't give a shit. I kinda love it about you"
I asked her if I do that all the time, not picking up on this myself, and her answer was "yeah, if anyone tries to scold you or give you shit you always give that damn grin and no one can do anything"
So how about that =)