Vice Versa?

I know if a guy has a high level of inner confidence he can be unshaven, dressed shabbily, and still attract girls to him.

I'm wondering if this works the same way with girls?

Well..If she hid her unshaven legs and convinced me thet her moustache was just a magical illusion that she was playing on me?
I'd have to hand it to her. She really DHV'd herself with that magic trick. :p

She would have to have some damn sexy confidence to pull that one off.


Although we are more visual, I think it can still and does still happen.

well, not with a moustache and other things,

but i feel more attraction for a girl when she got her things straight.
When we talk i get this magic aura over me and she also. Its some kind of special Bubble.
Talking is just goes frequently with each other. Usually they are girls that are into psychology aswell. so when she HB 7 i make her hb 8

A girl that is a hot mess, usually conveys that her life is a hot mess as well, she has morality issues as well. If she can't portray that she is atleast "clean" then perhaps other THINGS arent clean as well.

Not to look down on women that look NASTY, but christ sakes, clean your ass up, get your act together, and be a fucking girl!!

There are lots of girls who will not shave her legs unless they know they have a date or know that they are about to have sex.....and that is the truth. For those girls, they are lazy, which means like I said above, theyre morality is not valued and perhaps not even themselves.

If a girl had any value for herself, she wouldn't dress shabbily, she would be clean cut and ready to go!!

So, in my opinion...NO....it more than likely wouldn't work for her....unless the guy is the same way basically.

The "dirty" or "ruff' look on a guy looks tuff and can attract girls who like dangerous guys or tuff guys...

I've literally walked up to a girl who looked nice and stopped and done a 180, 5 feet away bc the smell was disgusting.

Like Para said girls gotta maintain a certain level of hygene that us guys (thank god) are not held to.

A girl can get away wearing unattractive clothing, or even having their hair a little unkept, maybe even little to no makeup...but when you dont shave, use deodorant, or keep your self generally clean im not interested.

Ka wrote:

A girl can get away wearing unattractive clothing, or even having their hair a little unkept, maybe even little to no makeup...but when you dont shave, use deodorant, or keep your self generally clean im not interested.

Im the same with that. Personal hygiene is a must for everyone. If you carry a purse around everywhere even a little bottle of perfume could be good.

I don't dress up a lot or wear a shitload of makeup, but I am definitely clean and fresh smelling.

I think there is a HUGE difference between dressing down and being just dirty. Nobody wants someone who cant take of basic hygiene

~Meg~ wrote:

I don't dress up a lot or wear a shitload of makeup, but I am definitely clean and fresh smelling.

I think there is a HUGE difference between dressing down and being just dirty. Nobody wants someone who cant take of basic hygiene

RIght, well that wasn't exactly how it might have been conveyed, however that is how I perceived it!!

I dress down alot, just because I don't really care....Personally, I hate make up.....I don't know bout you Meg, but I do. It seems just a waste because you know it will eventually come off during..........well anything basically.

But, around my area, I have seen people that shouldn't even come out of the house let alone they come out into the public smelling like a french whore...LMAO.

Or they dress like slobs....its a fact...people do it....they need to stop because they hurt my eyes when they wear the shit they do!!

(Im actually saying this in a humor-like fashion,btw)