i was out last night, and i remember at least 4 times walking past chicks that looked right at me and smiled real big as i walked past (i know they were looking at me because i was withing 3-4 feet of them). This is a definte IOI, but i still didnt open them because i got nervous thinking i dont have some kind of opener to use. Im always hesistant to use openers because i dont feel comfortable with them or i cant come up with one that is relevant, im not very witty. I was wondering, if i get such an extreme IOI, could i just walk up to them and say "hey you have a pretty smile, whats ur name?" The only reason why ive never done this is because its suposed to be a big no-no to ask a chick what her name is like that. I have a feeling im missing out because im not approaching these women