Sexual Vibing

I got some interesting feedback from an after club date last night.

After the club, we're sitting at IHOP talking, getting to know each other a bit more than we already did know each other. We've talked to each other in the clubs a couple of times before last night, and have danced together before too.

So, we're talking about social dynamics as I told her I call it. And she's telling me that I am confident and put off a confident vibe, but that I also put off a sexual vibe. Now, what's interesting is she clarified that by saying it's not a "I need to take you home tonight and @*#$ you" vibe. It's a "I'm confident in my sexuality, I know I'm sexy, I know what I can do and have to offer, I know who I am" sexual vibe.

She also told me that she thought for a while that it may be just her that felt that vibe from me, but she watched me with other girls and noticed that I put off the same vibe with them, and they respond accordingly.

She said my "combination", as I'll call it, is I put off a confident vibe, a sexual vibe, and I'm safe. Not one of those creepy come up from behind and grab your ass and grind you guys. Also, not a wallflower.

Well, personally, my explanation for this is my mindset. My sexual frame. I believe my sexual frame is strong enough, but not perverted, to put off a sexual vibe that the girls find sexy. In my FR in the Vault you'll see how many hook ups were littered throughout the night:
https://puas.forumotion.com/tripp-s-diary-f21/a-scavenger-hunt-from-april-5th-08-t661.htm#1738

I notice when I'm in the zone and the stars are all aligned so to speak that I give that glow off too. I've had some of the bartenders that see me in the venue tell me stuff like that. Just the other evening when I was working a set with a member of the Nashville lair I ended up Salsa dancing with her and kiss closing. She told me she could just see the romance being formed and that she was like pulled into me. At first I thought it was her bullshitting me, but she was sincere. She had on of the best vantage points. Come to think of it afterward she told me to text her.

When you are creating the vibe and things are working other women notice! My sexual frame isn't always there every time I go out but when it's there I'm telling them I'll be making out with them in the corner, and I do. I'll have them biting my neck, and I'm sucking on their tongues. You're grabbing their hair, and having them fantasing about you before you even get to that step. Remember women are sexual creatures and despite what they say many have told me they wouldn't be surprised if they thought about sex more than men. Keep that in mind!

GOOD POST LA!

Well, I havent been told I put off a sexual vibe yet.. I dont even know how to get in that mindset sounds confushing

Sexual Vibing means you Ooze and has this Aura of Sexual pulsing off your body. I constantly give off the vibe because I am a very sexual person. I can make the least most sexual thing sexual. Sexual vibe means you take risk most guys wouldn't. Your comfortable with sex and talking about it. When I say risk you tell a girl that normal a guy wouldn't tell a girl. One it plants in their mind your comfortable with your sexuality. Two it makes you non-needy because you seem like you can always get it.

The Shot Tech...Telling a girl your going to do something to her and pointing to that area. Most guys won't try that but if you do I positive it will work. I use it online. I tell girls when they meet they are going to give me a big hug and kiss. Which I usually start my dates from online at C1

Exactly. Juice, you're comfortable with yourself, being in your own skin, with sex, and with your sexuality. So, you're not afraid to talk about sex, to be sexual, to kino sexually, etc.

This confidence in yourself sexually creates the vibe. As I've said before, it all starts in your mind.

Tripp did you just call me Juice????

I guess all black people look alike!

well, dang.. lol

ROFL! No, I was agreeing with you Whoopie, and letting Juice have my input as well.

L.A. Tripp wrote:

Exactly. Juice, you're comfortable with yourself, being in your own skin, with sex, and with your sexuality. So, you're not afraid to talk about sex, to be sexual, to kino sexually, etc.

This confidence in yourself sexually creates the vibe. As I've said before, it all starts in your mind.

Very nice post, and very good comment here tripp that is what I am currently working on!

Good job bro. Keep working on it.

L.A. Tripp wrote:

Exactly. Juice, you're comfortable with yourself, being in your own skin, with sex, and with your sexuality. So, you're not afraid to talk about sex, to be sexual, to kino sexually, etc.

This confidence in yourself sexually creates the vibe. As I've said before, it all starts in your mind.

couldn't agree more!