I can relate to a lot of the outer game stuff. I came from the other side of things, being too skinny. It's kind of odd how inter-related, and circular all of it is. I didn't care what I looked liked because I didn't have the confidence to think it mattered. Over the years I've come to find what I like to wear, and what looks good on me. As I've refined my look, I got positive feed back, boosting the ego, encouraging me to refine that look more. Of course, this was all well before I was aware of Mystery, and creating an avatar. Now a days I get picked on for being kind of metro.