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L.A. Tripp Admin
Number of posts : 4766 Age : 51 Location : Evansville, IN Reputation : 19 Registration date : 2008-03-14
| Subject: Keep this in mind when attempting to seduce Sat Apr 18, 2009 6:39 am | |
| Use your signals sparingly. No woman wants to see the man: touching your chest, licking your lips, running your fingers through your hair, and staring . . . ALL at the same time. (She might even think you're a predator.) Remember, women are good at detecting whatever signal you give off. Less is more. If you just focus on making eye contact, and then watch her response, she'll take care of letting you know if she's interested.
Pay attention! The biggest mistake men make in the seduction arena is they don't pay close enough attention to women's signals. If you're interested, keep watching her for those signals. But never go into a woman's personal space uninvited unless you are a master manipulator and lady killer, or you are willing to face the consequences.
Excerpted from The Power of Body Language by Tonya Reiman | |
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-vH rAFC
Number of posts : 48 Age : 34 Location : Vancouver Reputation : 0 Registration date : 2009-03-03
| Subject: Re: Keep this in mind when attempting to seduce Sat Apr 18, 2009 10:41 am | |
| I'm really feeling this post, because I just experienced something similar to this over the week.
Thanks for this! | |
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L.A. Tripp Admin
Number of posts : 4766 Age : 51 Location : Evansville, IN Reputation : 19 Registration date : 2008-03-14
| Subject: Re: Keep this in mind when attempting to seduce Sat Apr 18, 2009 12:34 pm | |
| You're welcome. What did you experience? | |
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-vH rAFC
Number of posts : 48 Age : 34 Location : Vancouver Reputation : 0 Registration date : 2009-03-03
| Subject: Re: Keep this in mind when attempting to seduce Sat Apr 18, 2009 1:29 pm | |
| Well, all in all, the past week and a half have been absolute shit for me. Don't really want to go into too much details because that'd just make me more upset; but you know, one of those weeks where everybody and everything around you seem to radiate "FUCK YOU's" in your direction.
So needless to say, I needed some comfort. I decided to call up the girl I was mentioning about (the one about the social networking websites and IMs) last night and we spent the evening at her place, just relaxing and getting our drinks on. It was just the two of us. Yes, this is where you think it is going.
But it isn't. I knew I had all the necessary IOI's to get her in bed, yet it's actually pretty seldom that I make it this far with a girl I picked up. I figured if I play my cards right and gave her the right signals, then it'd be a breeze. But come LMR, I was sending all the wrong signals at the right times, and the right signals at the wrong times, and we ended up having an awkward makeout session lol. It's one of those things that become pretty self-evident but I can't really put it into words.
Hopefully things will start climbing upwards.
-vH | |
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L.A. Tripp Admin
Number of posts : 4766 Age : 51 Location : Evansville, IN Reputation : 19 Registration date : 2008-03-14
| Subject: Re: Keep this in mind when attempting to seduce Sat Apr 18, 2009 8:48 pm | |
| Short and simple: you're not comfortable with yourself. That's what you need to work on. You're not comfortable with your own intentions and actions and it comes through. | |
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-vH rAFC
Number of posts : 48 Age : 34 Location : Vancouver Reputation : 0 Registration date : 2009-03-03
| Subject: Re: Keep this in mind when attempting to seduce Mon Apr 20, 2009 9:56 pm | |
| Thanks L.A. Tripp, yeah it's something I'm working towards.
-vH | |
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Fortunehooks1 Tripp's Vault Member
Number of posts : 849 Age : 41 Location : USA Fort Worth, Texas Reputation : 1 Registration date : 2008-03-24
| Subject: Re: Keep this in mind when attempting to seduce Tue Apr 21, 2009 5:03 am | |
| Ahahaha, signals are very vital to your well being and the perceptions that others will try to gather info based on those body cues. It has its basis on how your baseline confidence expands or retracts within yourself. When you are pleasing to yourself, you will subconciously hold your head higher when you walk, have a better stride, and be comfortable talking to others. VH, don't consider your week shit my brother. Keep your vibe positive that is so important. Re arrange the labels, so you weren't as progressive in your week as you would like. It's not a big deal, you have a chance to change my man. Seuxal confidence, VH. Sexual confidence and a sexual aura is what you have to adopt and internalize. A way to adopt these notions is to understand that you are a sexual person and the women are sexual beings. That underlying belief will alleviate so many limited beliefs and extend the unlimited beliefs that you have to internalize. peace,lvoe and succe SS | |
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