new here

so i have no problem gettin the girl but the actual pick up is where my game is lackin and i was hoping that this site could help me

Welcome esman.

Please clarify your intro. No problem getting the girl but the actual pickup is where your game is lacking?

LMAO. I second that V.

Other than that, welcome esman. I know we can help you here, if not from the direct advice then from the countless posts already here.

The reason we need clarification is it sounds like you are contradicting yourself bro.

Have a look around and find what you need!

Welcome! Welcome!

well ill just say i have no problem getting the girl home or where ever but the initial first introduction im lacking if i could get that down id be fine i just have a real problem walking up and introducing myself

Hey, welcome
For me im the oposite now, I can open and carry on but the ending is... not as i want it to be..

well if you want some pointers i can help out the main thing is being physical and makin your move

esman, curious, how do you know you can get the girl home . . . if you can't open her up to begin with?

i can open but only in certain situations but since i moved im having trouble opening at all

Since you just moved, this is the BEST time to open new sets of people you don't know, because you don't have a rep yet. Create the one you want.

Ah..I am guessing you had decent success before because of your social circle. Makes sense.

yep i worked of of theyre failures

Hmm... I'm sorry, but I'm not really buying it. Esman, if you are being honest then good for you, but I'd just caution you to be absolutely honest here. Otherwise you gain nothing, ya know? Now don't take that as an attack-- when I was nineteen there was no way in hell I'd admit to my number (it was three then).

There is a ton of good material on opening here, and as Tripp said it really is the perfect time for you to break out. New area, out of school (are you in college?)... the planets are aligned for you. Check out some different areas in the forum for pointers, and post your questions. The guys (and girls) here are fantastic, and range in experience from completely novice to masters of the art.

Like I said, though, just be honest. Of course I'm not challenging you and I could care less if you reply to this affirming your ability or admitting that I am right. What I'm saying applies either way: be honest with yourself.

alright being honest my current number is 16 but no i dont go to college and i work almost all the time and thats making it very hard for me to go out there and try out openers

Alright, I can understand that, especially since you can't go to bars yet I can understand also how it's difficult to get "out." Well, it's a great time for growth for you then! You seem to have the post-open skills down fairly well then, so building your opening skills now will be even more beneficial for you when you turn 21 and open the door to bars.

Like I said, there's a ton of great material here, and some people who really know what they are talking about. Best of luck, and since I seem to have forgotten to write this before, welcome to the forum.

LMAO . . . when I was 19 that was about the time I lost my virginity, so I was between zero and 1 lay. I ended up marrying that girl too. (PUKE). There's no shame in that, especially when you don't know what the fuck you are doing, lol.

A "bit" of a different story for me now, at this point in my life, but hey we all have to start at the same point, lol.

esman, what type of work do you do?

right now im a relief worker for a company that specializes in helping the mentally handicapped and helps them gain independence we mainly work with adults...i just met a girl at work but she has a bf fuck

theres a few divided visions of working/dating on here. Its no loss, theres plenty of people out there. Just dont get too attached........

Tread carefully is the message when talking about work relations