PUSH PULL?

Hey guys, i was thinking about push pulling i was wondering how long do you push then how long do u pull... would it be push pull in one day or would it be like u real her in for a week then kinda push her then pull her again the next week? Ive always been confused about that.

Thanks

My basic stance on a push-pull is something that should done during the moment interaction. Case in point, I got this girl's number wednesday. On Friday, she's sitting next to me. I tell her, When people don't return my calls and they don't have any good news to tell me, I basically cut them off.-push Then I give her another chance to share something. She tells me about how helped someone avoid hitting some ducks crossing the road, whatever. My response," Oh you helped save some young ducklings life, you are almost back in my good graces now."-pull.

The basic premise of what I was doing trying to determine how much if any has this girl invested in communicating with me. Case in point as to why, I disclosed my disappointment with her, not returning my phone call, coupled with the fact that she didn't have any good news to share with me. I pretty much gave her a scenario on how she could clear the air.

Pua to be, what you are doing is setting up freeze-outs brother. From my experience, pushing a girl all week, and then trying to pull her the next week isn't the best route to take. Push-pull works best when done in the same interaction and situational context. peace,lvoe and succe SS

so what im doing is not considered push pull its freeze outs....

PUA to be wrote:

so what im doing is not considered push pull its freeze outs....

Yes. What Fortune laid out for you is how push/pull actually does work. It has to be done at the same basic time. The whole push/pull process is actually a small thing in the overall context of the interaction. The freeze out is a major point of focus. The push/pull is tiny in comparison, and is meant to build attraction, not punish as a freeze out does.

so my method would not help me get the girl to fall for me whats so ever?

PUA to be wrote:

so my method would not help me get the girl to fall for me whats so ever?

I won't say absolutely without a doubt whatsoever, because there are always those exceptions. But in general? NO, it won't. Sorry.

alright thanks guys

Pua, I am gonna share with you a story of my experience with the exact actions you took in this situation. I had this girl who absolutely adored me, but I was first starting to learn the game. So you know what newbies do most, that's right NEG to no end. This girl is pretty hot, but I was new to the game, and I didn't have the calibration. What I ended up doing was punish this girl for good behavior, and she stayed for about a month and endured my putdowns. Then finally she had enough, and stood up for herself. When she stood up for herself, whew, I knew my attraction was dead in the water. I ran to far ahead of her, and she gave up the chase. So instead of getting the girl to chase me, I chased her away. Til this day, I see her and man, I want to get that attraction back with her, but she has closed off those sparks toward me. What you need to do is run ahead of the girl, initially. Then, slow up and let her grab you for some ticks(week or so) Then alert her attention and run to another pole, and repeat the process. Never become mentally stagnant, that is a kiss of death to your interaction with girls. peace,lvoe and succe SS

i kno what you mean man i really think i chased this one out too i acted way to needy and i showed way to much interest in her and she lost interest... i doubt i can get this one back but its worth a try...