Hi dude,
First thing to improve yourself : Quit Warcraft 3 =)) haha
I loved the game but it consumed 75% of my social life.
Hey but however, I remember in the past, not being able to meet my girlfriend because I had a WC3 game to play or not picking up the phone because I was in the middle of a game. Maybe it is alpha because I didn't act needy and the girls actually stuck around =).
Good to have you around.